How many times have you fallen in love with someone and expressed your feelings prematurely? Sometimes it is difficult to understand whether your feelings are mutual or not. But we are here to help you! Look for these 13 subtle clues to get to know their feelings. Are they in you?

It’s always good to know if your love interest is yours too, before making a deliberate move like asking them a dozen roses or asking them out on their birthday. But how do you know if they are into you? Is it easy to guess what is on another person’s mind?

Yes! If a special someone wants to reciprocate your feelings, they will send some voluntary and involuntary signals through their body language and communication. These physical and behavioral indicators tell you that your love is not unrequited and these are signs that she is into you too.

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When they aren’t upfront about their feelings, watch out for these 13 signs they’ll give up on their true desires. When you’re paying attention, the question of how to tell if someone is into you simply answers itself.

1. The closer the better
   When someone is attracted to you, they won’t be able to resist the temptation to be near you. If your special someone steals every opportunity to sit next to you or playfully touch your shoulder, it could mean that he likes you too. Research proves that non-sexual physical contact between partners plays an important role in their overall health.
2. For their eyes only
   Do you catch your love interest glancing at you when you are not looking at him? Or when you are engaged in a conversation, do they look at you intently with a deep, powerful look? Strong and prolonged eye contact as well as stealing glances could mean that she’s into you, too.
3. Better you
   You may be the least superficial person on earth, yet they try to look their best when they are around you. They will spare no effort to look visually appealing. They will take care of their personal appearance, making sure they wear their finest clothes, smell heavenly, and sport the coolest shoes and accessories when they are with you. Also watch out for quick little tricks like fixing their hair or adjusting their shirt when you’re not looking; These are signs that she is screaming inside you.

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4. All ears
   How many times have you seen people sitting across from each other but looking at their phones? This will not happen when someone cares about you. They’ll pay close attention to everything you say and keep their phones off or on silent mode. You will get their undivided attention when you meet each other. Still wondering how to know if they are into you? If they’re paying enough attention, they’re into you.

Let’s say you go out with someone and they spend all their time either talking about themselves or tapping their phones; Are they in you unfortunately not.

5. Elephant memory
   Not only will your crush listen to you, but they will also remember everything you said about yourself, your family, your childhood, and your past relationships. They’ll remember all the important details like your birthday, your favorite ice cream flavor, or your favorite type of music when you’re feeling down.

Paying attention and remembering things about you are strong signs that she is into you, too.

6. Small talks are great
   If a guy likes you and is eager to learn more about you, he won’t get tired of small talk. Whenever they get a chance from their busy schedule, they will check in with you and engage in conversations that may seem casual but are very meaningful to them. For a guy who’s into you, small talk isn’t polite or to pass the time, it’s ways to get to know more about you.

Suppose you have someone who texts you to get to know your day and starts conversations about your favorite vacation destinations. Are they in you? Oh yes!

7. Mydriasis
   How do you know if someone is into you? Look into their eyes!

We know that dilated pupils happen under the influence of drugs or alcohol or when we go for an eye exam but what many of us don’t know is that it can also happen as a biological reaction to attraction or ahem… sexual arousal. We’ll give you the details on how the release of happy hormones like dopamine and oxytocin affects our pupils and just give you a nudge to look into their eyes the next time you see them.

8. Blushing
   Do you find them blushing every time you give them a nice compliment? Fluffy skin is often an indication that you are emotional. We can blush when we’re excited, embarrassed, or offended, so keep the context in mind, and see if the person you’re interested in tends to blush in your presence. Their blushing could be a reaction to the adrenaline rush they get by being near you.

Do you blush when you see them? Then the feelings are mutual, they are as much into you as you are into them.

9. Ask questions
   So we already covered that, if your love interest is yours too, they will listen to you and remember your little life stories. But the other thing that will tell them is to ask questions about you. If you’ve been anxious to find out if they’re interested in you, take note now. They will keep asking you about your likes and dislikes, your hobbies and goals, and of course, about your love life. If you find that they ask a lot of questions about your life, make sure they are into you too.

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10. Take the initiative
    When someone is into you, they will be proactive in arranging your get-togethers and making creative plans for the time you will spend together. They will spare no effort to make you feel special and comfortable. You will not feel that you are the only one who longs to meet; It will match your enthusiasm and excitement.

How do you know if they are into you? Take a step back and see if they step up.

11. A second is too long
    While it’s totally normal to hug or hold hands with a friend, when it comes to that special someone, physical intimacy will always last for a second. They will slowly leave you and you will feel a sense of longing when they wrap their arms around you or hold your hand tightly in public. Your intuition will tell you that you are more than just a friend to them, they are into you!
12. The thought that matters
    They will always be very thoughtful when it comes to you. All the gifts they give you, all the dinner plans they make, everything will tell you you’ve been on their mind. Whether it’s a video game for your birthday, the one you’ve wanted forever or lasagna made just the way you like it, every little gesture will be thoughtful and made with your feelings in mind.
13. Whatever you like
    Do they stay up late to chat with you? If a guy who doesn’t even look at his phone when he’s with you is always responsive and responsive to your conversations and messages when you’re away, you can relax, it indicates that he’s into you too.

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• Are they in you? Some other points to check!
• They ask your opinion a lot
• They want you to meet their friends
• They are sensitive to your feedback
• Put a smile on their faces
• They give you a lot of compliments
• They even laugh at your bad jokes
• They want to try new things with you

Attraction should not be a guessing game
After all, is said and done, we encourage you to be direct about your feelings and not let the other person guess. Someone has to take the lead, and if you see your romantic interest showing these signs, he’s into you too! So what’s stopping you from expressing yourself?

Do you know someone who sends these signals when they are with you? Or are you the one showing these signs of attraction? Don’t forget to let us know by leaving a comment below.

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