Who would have thought that three little words could trigger such a massive panic in a narcissist? Impossible!

I’m very happy to tell you that there are three words that, when put together, will instill in them the fear of God.

I’m not one to encourage panic, but when it comes to narcissists, you have to do what you have to do to survive.

If that means being aware of what you can do to reclaim your power, so be it!

Panic? Really?

You might think narcissists are incapable of panicking. After all, they’re so confident.

They love to brag, to show off, and to show off their status to the entire community (or anyone who will listen). But as you know, narcissists are human too, and they make mistakes.

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While they’re supposed to be strong, unaffected people, sometimes they do show up.

Now, the key here is to remember that whatever their problem is, it’s not your fault.

And the reason for your three words isn’t your fault either (it’ll become clear when you read them!)

Remember The True Narcissist

That’s the gist, isn’t it?

The true narcissist is someone who strives for outer perfection while struggling with their inner flaws, demons, and self-loathing.

This type of person will never live a balanced life. How can they? It’s simply not possible, so what do they do?

They pretend. They pretend everything. They pretend friendships, love, happiness, and contentment, just so they can have people around them who can move them around on their hidden chessboard.

We’re all just pawns in their game.

Ego Is Just Acting

As we know, the ego only serves to establish the narcissist’s position, and this serves them, not you.

They want to be the best, so they dedicate their life to convincing everyone that they are.

It’s all an act. If you left a narcissist home alone, they wouldn’t even be able to look at themselves in the mirror fully, unless they were checking their abs or something. Ask any of them to look at their face long enough, and they’d collapse.

They couldn’t do it.

They don’t have the capacity to look deep into their soul and feel who they really are.

Love Knowing Control

I really want you to know that it’s okay to be able to control the narrative whenever you want.

These three words will not only scare every narcissist, but will radically change the entire dynamic from now on.

The question is…

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Are you ready for them?

Those 3 Words…

I know you.

It sounds so innocent, doesn’t it?

You know them.

It’s almost romantic. If you use it with someone you know and truly care about, it can be a reassuring way to prove their worth.

But when you use it with a hyper-paranoid narcissist, you won’t give them that warm, loving feeling.

Instead, they’ll panic. They’ll feel the fear creeping in, which they try so hard every day to suppress and ignore.

You know them.

What They Do To A Narcissist

Getting to know a narcissist honestly means you’ve gotten past all their nonsense and have finally gotten to the bottom of the problem.

You’re no longer in love with their charm. You see the damage in everything they do, say, feel, and express outwardly. But let’s move on.

You feel it too. You feel the way they’ve changed you. You notice all the different ways you interact with the world around you.

You become increasingly fearful, anxious, and depressed, and you withdraw from what you once enjoyed.

Your joy in life has been erased, and you don’t understand how you’ll ever get it back.

They’re done, and you’ve had enough.

So when I tell you what your words are doing to the narcissist, it’s because they made you feel what you feel. Your words are the result of their actions.

You’re not asking them to start a war or to discredit the narcissist. You’re saying it because those words are the truth.

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Whatever it is doing to the narcissist is their doing, and they have to deal with it.

Unfortunately, they don’t deal with it. They just panic.

Watching A Narcissist Panic

I like to ask clients whenever I can about their experiences. I asked five of them about their experiences watching a narcissist they know panic, and this is what they said.

“It was like watching my favorite movie, actually. I enjoyed it. Not because I’m a psychopath, but because it confirmed that I was right. I knew he was a narcissist, and I just didn’t have the courage or confidence to say it out loud.”

I was relieved to see her panic. I knew I’d pushed her to a point where she couldn’t talk herself out of it. She was accusing many of her acquaintances of being narcissists, but I thought, “No, you’re the reason.” I was right.

“I was a little worried about what would happen when I expressed my thoughts to him.

I don’t have a great track record of being honest, so it took a lot of work. Fear exists, right?

No one wants to stir things up or escalate them. But when I finally asked him and saw the panic in his eyes, I knew it.

He knew I knew, and there was no going back.”

I regret the way I asked her. It came out in an argument, and she was already angry.

I knew her, and I knew she was toxic from the moment she started to take off her mask. She’d always been emotional, so her panic was masked by intense fear, if that makes sense.

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It was a wonderful feeling to know I was right, especially since I was always told I was wrong.

I watched him closely. The panic was fleeting, really. He knew he had to hide his fear of being exposed, and he did so by refusing to speak to me for three days.

We eventually broke up, but that was the day everything changed. I’m glad I asked him.

It was like a key that had been stuck finally came back on, and I regained some of my power.