5 Self-Sabotaging Mistakes Women Make That Turn Men Off

When it comes to the dating scene, just like many things turn women off, there are some things women do that turn men off. Let’s find out the things that piss men off about women.

Are you wondering if you exclude men from your dating and life? Many women do this. It is accidental, unconscious and sometimes difficult to understand! This can be especially worrying when it comes to the men you love, the people you care about! Then it proceeds to disappear on you.

It’s so disappointing when things go south with someone you love. But it might just be that you do some very small things that make men angry. And I’m going to review the most popular turn-ups, with the help of our amazing dating coach, Mark Rosenfeld, whom you’ll meet shortly in the video below!

So you can upgrade your dating skills and keep the one you want.

Sometimes the chances of finding and keeping your soulmate seem very slim. You may feel like you will never find the one true love who will overlook your weaknesses and just hang on there to make your relationship work! I know. You may feel completely overwhelmed by dating. I understand. But just check out the rest of this blog and video to help you get where you really want to be in your heartthrob.

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Mistakes that turn men away: being judgmental etc.

One of the things she might do that repels men is being overly judgmental and difficult to please. Especially in terms of appearance, income and other superficial things.

Other things that turn men off include:

Being very cute, as you tend to transform yourself from the inside out to be who a guy wants you to be.
Don’t be yourself – you tend to be dishonest in your demands of him for your needs and wants.
Settle on the crumbs, as the guy will rarely see you and give you a small part of his time or attention.
Play hard to get and keep your distance.

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How not to turn off men

So, let’s make sure that you choose the right people to spend your precious time with! Those who will respond when you stop doing these little things that put men off. Men who are not picky about the way you act. I call these true soulmates, the ones who are completely into you.

There are major questions that separate what I call a DUD (Definitely Impractical Dude) from STUD (Absolutely Awesome and Totally Dedicated Dude). They weed out those who are heartbreakers or not good love matches. No man is perfect. But you can find a great guy who is willing to grow into a near-perfect STUD! Who would find almost anything you do endearing!

The two questions to ask yourself

When you meet someone, ask yourself the following questions:

Is this guy:

crazy about me

anxious to see me
Hesitant to leave me
Interested in me and my life
want to be useful
Verbally and physically affectionate
He wants to be sexual with me
acts like I’m very special; He doesn’t really want to date other people
Willing to hang out there while I work on Three

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Ready to grow?

Takes suggestions or advice
It is self-reflective
Willing to go into therapy or life coaching
It takes growth cycles
meditate or pray
In a 12-step program or a men’s group
How would you rate your date
If a guy is willing to grow up, he can talk to you directly about the things that hold him back. And this can be very beneficial: you want to have a win-win relationship where you both grow together!

A man must meet at least several of these criteria in each of the two categories to be eligible to date. Choosing from this pool of men will save you a lot of wasted time with men who aren’t into you, bastards who betray you, or narcissists who blame you for any problem.

Using a DUD/STUD scan greatly increases your chances of finding your soulmate who loves you unconditionally and puts you in a strong and long-lasting loving relationship. This means that your partner is your best friend who overlooks the things you do that tend to turn men off.

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If a guy passes the test, give him a real shot, even if he’s bald, jerky, cranky, or not particularly attractive. You want to date versus write. Remember to remain open even if someone doesn’t surprise you on the first date. If he/she passes the DUD/STUD exam, go to at least a second or third appointment.

You cannot know the secret good things hidden in a person just by meeting them once. You have to let a potential partner unfold and show you their different sides. Remember that you are breaking your patterns that put men off. Patterns that have been ruining your chances of finding your soulmate.

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