The beautiful blonde legend, which fell deeply in love with his reflection, stares at him, will know until he was lost.

In many versions of the story, Narcisus, pine and regret for the gods, spoils them to give him his true love (himself).

Now, Narcissus did not do much to beat the gods.

But it seems that the narcissists and manipulation in the modern era have a way to confirm the domination of us through the power of speech and have been able to compensate for the failure of Narcisus.

If you find yourself in a similar cycle and hear any of the following 35 phrases, be careful – you may have got a narcissistic on your hands.

infature and love

First, the stage of bombing of love comes, where you are heated with a lot of love and fascination, you can only help fall into the heel and feel incredibly privacy.

Yes, only a week has passed since I met, but no one has shown you this level of care and attention. You feel blessed and lucky, and you feel almost worship.

• “I have not met anyone like you before.”
• “We don’t need anyone else.”
• “We will be together forever.”
• “You are the best thing for me ever.”
• “I can’t believe that fate was collected.”
• Reducing the value of the discount
• After that, the stage of reducing the value of the currency.

I have already put this person on the base of the statue and fell into the heels.

You are obsessed with them and think they are obsessed with you, but then in arguments or differences, things really begin acidity and invasive lighting begins.

• “You are very sensitive.”
• “you are crazy.”
• “You completely remember this error.”
• “This has never happened. Your mind must play tricks on you.”
• “What is your problem? How can you say that to me?”

Excuses #

Now you are very painful. This person and gentle who seemed to choose you from anyone else and made you feel that the best person in the world is … I mean.

But you can only think about all those gentle things they said. How did they hit the ego and strengthen your confidence and make you believe that the stars have truly parallel to combining you.

So they come with a group of phrases to explain their behavior when you try to summon them on these bad phrases.

Suddenly, the bad man is no longer though you made you cry and make you feel a little crazy.

They have an enlarged ability to double the back and reaffirm their authority by going out with a set of excuses that apparently explain why they said the things they did.

• “I’m sorry, I am very afraid that you will leave me.”
• “I was cheating before and made me this betrayal in this way, but I do not mean that.”
• “I do not intentionally do it.”
• “I really passed a bad childhood, so I can’t help behave now this way.”
• “Love is not always easy. Everyone is going through periods like this.”

Fixed criticism

Everything is fine and Dandy again! They have returned to gentle behavior and love, buying you flowers or other studied gifts, and treating you well.

“You are very bad in drawing, it’s influential.”
“Your friends do not really love you, as you know. I heard them whispering.”
“This disgusting dish. How bad is your cooking skills?!”
“You are a little looking a little in recent times. Did you overcome the gym?”
“You should not really like your colleagues if he does not invite you on Thursday.”

Control and hegemony

There is no equal foot in a relationship with the narcissist.

Whenever possible, they will try to possess and emphasize that hegemony is by making themselves smarter, more knowledgeable, and always on the right.

• “Well, since I am the person who got the degree, I think we can agree that I am right in this”.
• “I don’t want you to wear it.”
• “I lived here for a longer period, so I know the best.”
• “This is a stupid view. I thought you were more intelligent than that.”
• “I have just seen more world, so I understand it better.”

Feeling guilt stumbling

Now, you are very confused. Your connection quickly fades between hot and cold, you do not know the way you rise or which one at this stage.

You have begun to doubt yourself and your memory, and do your ability at the moment.

And more than that, the more you express the slightest doubt, the slightest hesitation, you remember the extent of your luck that you are blessed with their existence.

Any ideas to end the relationship are crushed because it revolves every situation again to make you the bad man.

“I don’t know why you behave like this? You are very lucky to be with me.”
“Do you know how many other people want me?”
“I have a lot of options best to choose from, but I am here with you. You can be more grateful.”
“If you really love me, you will do your best.”
“All of this argues, all this get rid of this, yet I still devote to you. Do you know how lucky you are?

sults and ill -treatment

You should be very dilapidated to sit there and take the following phrases.

But I was there myself, so I can’t judge.

Your ego and your confidence are beaten by the narcissist, so that you do not even wonder about the hateful phrases they throw on your way.

You just sit there and take it, accepting that you are useless and hateful and that it is the best you will get at all.

“Nobody loves you.”
“You are the person who did this for yourself.”
“You are a bad person, deep. I disgust me.”
“No wonder everyone hates you.”
“Enjoy death alone.”

Cinging A Narcissist

After I was in the course, I know how absurdity may seem strange.

What kind of imaginary person will remain and take this level of criticism?

But the endless cycle of hot and cold, from love from love, then wears the floods from hatred to the extent that you mainly shock with this person and you cannot leave.

You are addicted to the moments of warmth and do additional work like a fog dog to see food scraps. The truth of the situation is something you are trying to prevent and certainly cannot see it clearly.

By this point, it is also possible to be isolated from all friends and family who could show you better or remove you.

Freeing from the emotional abuse that narcissists incite it is very difficult. But this is absolutely something you need to do if the above phrases are part of your daily life.

Check our evidence of separation with the narcissist here.

And remember that although your own value may be in a state of lament, you deserve much more than this person offers.

There is no narcissist, but you can still save yourself.