The time has come, and you can’t take it anymore.

The peace of your home has been disturbed since the narcissist entered, and now you want it back.

Is it as simple as asking them to leave?

Would they accept that kind of hint?

What do you think?!

I’m not going to lie—it’ll be a mission. Once it’s done, you’ll be able to breathe again.

Let’s take a look at 7 ways to get a narcissist out of your home—for good!

Can’t Take It Anymore…

You’ve tried and tried all your life, but it’s time to change something.

You want to be alone. You dream of being alone. So what do you do?

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Home should be a haven of peace and tranquility, and if it isn’t, you know something has to change.

Narcissists make their presence felt when they enter your environment, either with their charismatic appeal or with a toxic and destructive impulse.

So, if this is happening under your roof, you should feel safe and reassured. It’s time to make a change for the better—a permanent change.

Ditch the Narcissist Now!

1 You Have to Expose Them

My first piece of advice is to make sure you expose the narcissist.

I don’t promise it’ll be fun, but certain things are necessary if you want this evolution to happen.

Sometimes, evolution involves making big commitments to each other, and other times, it involves breaking those commitments.

Exposing them as narcissists simply means telling them that nothing they do will get past you.

You’ve understood who they are, what their game is, and how toxic and destructive they are as people.

So where does that leave you? You can’t live under the same roof; the dynamics won’t work, so the narcissist will disappear very quickly.

2 Silence

It may be awkward at best, but silence will relieve the narcissist’s discomfort.

This is especially helpful when you stop reacting to how they try to drag you into conflict.

After you cried, screamed, trembled, and yelled at them for what they said, did, or accused you of, now you do nothing.

This will only deepen the narcissist’s discomfort, making it harder for them to find someone who can be helpful to you.

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Do you know what that means?

It means they’ll leave and be done with it. After all, what’s the point of staying?

3 Make it harder for them to get your livelihood

How have you been giving yourself up?

Did you:

• Get dragged into arguments?
• Believed them when they told you how ugly/fat/useless you were?
• Give yourself up?
• Leave your version of reality to fit into theirs?
• Appeased to their mistreatment of others?
• Standed up for them when they needed you?
• Worthy obedience?
• Shut up to their abuse?
• Gain them jealous when they instilled it in you?

Whatever your livelihood is, if it’s cut off, you’ll never find a happy or contented narcissist living under your roof.

The only way they can find happiness again is to move away and look elsewhere for that vital supply chain.

Cut them off, and you can’t feed them.

Oh, how fun!

4 Start Standing Up for Yourself

No one else is going to do it for you, so you have to do it yourself.

I think that can sometimes be the problem. We want to wait for someone to save us, but it never happens.

Everyone is busy with their own things, and sometimes you have to do the right thing.

So what’s the right thing to do in this situation?

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Standing up for yourself shows that you value yourself. You want to protect what they’ve worked so hard to break all this time under your roof.

They won’t like that you’re changing and growing into a more assertive person, which is why you often see them leave so quickly.

The dynamics they’re creating aren’t working anymore, so the only wise choice is to leave.

5 Don’t Settle for What Was Working Before

The status quo has to go!

I know you all know what that means, but putting it into practice is another matter entirely. Throughout your relationship, the puzzle seems to have been laid out a certain way, doesn’t it?

Your place is there, the narcissist’s place is there, and everyone around you fits in.

That’s exactly what the narcissist wants.

But do you know something? You take the puzzle and tear it apart, and suddenly, the narcissist has nowhere to go, nowhere to look.

They don’t even know what to do first, but one thing is for sure.

They won’t want to hang around.

6 Admit It’s Not Working

Raise your hands and say, “You know what? It’s not working for me anymore.

I don’t want to be in this, or work at it when the goodness or love isn’t there anymore. I’ve had enough, and I want a change.”

Your admission will initially send the narcissist into a panic. What do they do now?

It’s clear by now that you’re not offering them any additional support, so their continued waiting will be pointless.

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It takes a strong mind to admit that this abusive coexistence you’ve been forced to live with isn’t working anymore.

But when are you going to do that, man? Your world will change infinitely for the better.

7 Start Your Life

Does anyone feel like the narcissist you know and live with has held you back? Think about who you were when you first met them, compared to who you are now.

Do you feel like a shadow of yourself, or a hollowed-out version of yourself?

That’s what they do. They make sure you’re empty, without fun or hobbies to turn to and enjoy.

The moment you start to reclaim your life is the moment they realize they’ve lost you.

All the abuse you’ve endured up until this point is now being pushed back into your past as you begin to rebuild your life and identity.

All the qualities and characteristics they took from you.