You’ve been friends forever, so you can sense when something is wrong in your friendship.
Despite this, you want to give them the benefit of the doubt. After all, what if they were going through something? You are mature enough to know that friendships change over time.
However, you can’t shake your suspicions that there’s more to it than that and that maybe he hates you!
To be sure, pay attention if your friend does a lot of the things listed below.
37 signs that your boyfriend hates you
1) You are the one communicating with you all the time
You talked nonstop in person, through phone calls, and conversations. Chatarama all day, every day! You shared even the simplest things like your boring lunch and daily horoscopes.
If there’s a knock on your phone, you know it’s it.
But these days, they talk less and less. The change, of course, was gradual. From daily to every other day, to weekly, to twice a month. And guess who starts catch-ups twice a month? You and only you.
2) They’re not excited to see you
You don’t talk much online anymore, so you invite them for a quick meetup, expecting that they’ll be the same person you used to know when you finally meet them again.
Of course, this does not happen.
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For the last few dates I’ve gone on, they’ve been late and in a rush to leave. They don’t even have any excuses on hand anymore.
They refuse when you ask if they want another beer or another coffee. They keep checking their watch, more excited to leave than they are to meet you.
They could be very busy and stressed, have important things on their mind, or perhaps they find it pointless to meet you if they hate you deep down.
3) They don’t like to open up anymore
It’s been a long time since you both opened up to each other and shared your burdens. Now when you ask them how successful they are, they simply shrug their shoulders and say “Same old, same old”.
But you don’t know how they’ve been doing lately, so you don’t even know what they mean by “same age,” so you push a little harder. Then they get angry at you or push you away, telling you not to be so nosy.
It’s as if they built a wall around themselves. Maybe they don’t trust you anymore, or maybe they’re trying to push you away so they don’t end up hating you even more.
4) They can’t stand the joke anymore
You’re used to saying stupid things and just laughing at them. But now, even if you joke about something as trivial as their choice of drink or the color of their shirt, they react as if you’ve committed a crime.
It’s sad when you can’t joke with each other anymore because the ability to “insult” each other is an indicator of closeness.
What did I do to deserve this? Everything was fine, but now it’s like they think you’re a heartless stranger whose goal is to make them feel bad.
5) Your questions suddenly become offensive to them
When you ask “How is your relationship?”, it sounds like you are asking “Why are you still together?”
When you ask “How’s it work?” For them, it’s like asking, “Are you still stuck in the same boring job that pays too little?”
They don’t make it clear that they are insulted though. They don’t want to show their weakness. Instead, you will notice that their mood changes.
6) They make you feel clingy and demanding
You want to maintain your friendship because it is very precious to you. Naturally, you want to do things together.
They’re not enthusiastic but you try to communicate with them anyway. Ask them about it and ask if you can join them, only for them to get annoyed with you and tell you that you’re too demanding.
This can have an advantage if you try to be with them every day, and if you try to make sure they never do anything without you.
But if it’s been a while since your last contact, it’s not good. It just means that your friend resents you on some level.
7) They enjoy bullying you
They can’t take a joke but they enjoy bullying you in front of everyone.
They will laugh so hard when you struggle, and sometimes you wonder why they would do it now when they used to bully everyone except you.
Well, you’re not the exception anymore because your friend probably hates you now. You might be his favorite person to bully right now if he hates you.
8) They become condescending
They want to belittle you every chance they get, but they do it in a funny and sarcastic tone so you have no right to feel insulted.
They will lecture you on how to handle your money, and how you should get rid of your bad habits.
They’ll roll their eyes when you ask them about something you know nothing about, to remind you that you’re kind of stupid.
9) They will ask you to return the things you borrowed
You have always been generous to each other. You borrow each other’s things, you borrow money from each other… you’re like family!
But now they are asking you to get these things back ASAP as if you are a bad friend for keeping their stuff. Your friend probably resents you and shows her anger in these small ways.
10) Flirt with the person you like
When your friendship was still great, they couldn’t get close to the person you liked. If they make progress, you know your friend will escape. You are good friends!
But now, even though your boyfriend isn’t actively pursuing your crush, he’s not pushing him away either. It’s as if your friend is enjoying torturing you.
11) They are pretending to like you
The way they smile is different, and the way they gush and congratulate you on your new job is different too. They feel… fake!
It’s like they’re not really who they are. They can’t fool you because you’ve known each other forever and that means you also know when to be fake.
