Do you get a strange feeling from your partner, as if something is wrong?

Like, maybe they hate you?

So maybe you’ve been saying to yourself, “I’m just being paranoid,” because surely, if your partner hated you, he would have left you, right?

mistake.

I’ve seen it happen many times… People stay in relationships with partners they can’t stand for a variety of reasons.

But how can you be sure you’re not imagining things?

By paying attention to these 10 warning signs your partner secretly hates you.

Are you ready to know the truth?

1) You feel like you don’t know them

Have you ever looked at your partner and felt like you were looking at a complete stranger?

Well, this is what happens when the connection shared by two people breaks. You will feel as if they are no longer the person you once knew.

And if they start to feel resentful and have negative feelings towards you, you will look at their faces and see something that wasn’t there before…

This could be a warning sign that your partner secretly hates you, at the very least, it’s a sign that something is seriously wrong with your relationship.

2) Don’t talk

Good communication is one of the pillars of a healthy relationship. Take that away, and you may be looking at another warning sign.

But hey, don’t panic yet!

Not communicating without any of the other signs mentioned in this article is not sufficient evidence.

If your partner becomes distant and avoids serious conversations, there may be something else bothering him, such as a problem at work or general dissatisfaction with his life.

So, be careful, but look for more signs because it doesn’t necessarily mean they hate you.

3) They constantly criticize you

Sure, some people can be critical of everything and everyone. So, ask yourself: “Have they always been this important?” and “Do they find fault with everyone or just me?”

Because here’s the thing: when you hate someone, you’ll hate everything about them. From their words to the way they chew their food, everything will annoy you.

Just be careful not to confuse constructive, well-intentioned criticism with criticizing someone who hates you. Their criticisms are unfounded, aggressive, persistent, and certainly not well-intentioned.

4) You are no longer intimate

If you can’t remember the last time you had sex, it could mean trouble.

As you can see, a sudden or prolonged lack of intimacy can indicate emotional or relational problems.

And if you’re trying to initiate sex, only to have them come up with an excuse not to have anything, then something is definitely up.

It makes sense if you think about it – when you’re fed up with someone, resentful or even hateful, the last thing you want to do is be intimate with them.

Again, there are many things that could be the root cause of the problem, and it doesn’t always mean they hate you. That’s why it’s important to look at all the signs and examine your partner’s overall behavior toward you.

5) They are not interested

If your partner never asks you how your day went, or how things are going at work, or if your grandmother is doing better, he’s either too selfish, or he doesn’t care.

I mean, when two people love each other and share a deep connection, they truly care about each other’s lives.

They care about what the other person is going through in their daily life.

So, if your partner shows little to no interest in your life or struggles, this could be another warning sign that he secretly hates you.

6) There is constant negativity

If your partner starts to wear you down with his constant negativity, this may be another sign that you need to reconsider your relationship.

Be observant: Are they only negative in your company?

Are they playful and playful when there are other people around and then have a complete change in mood when you’re alone?

A constant negative attitude can have a negative impact on a relationship.

Unfortunately, one of the reasons for a lot of negativity may be how your partner feels about you.

7) You’re always arguing

Do you feel that your relationship has turned into one fight after another?

Do you think twice before opening your mouth to say something, because you know it might start another round of argument?

Maybe your partner is unhappy, maybe he’s angry, or maybe he just really hates you, but one thing is for sure, there’s something seriously wrong with your relationship.

You definitely need to get to the bottom of what is happening and see if it is possible to salvage the relationship.

If not, you’ll need to get out, like yesterday, because staying in is too toxic for you.

8) Your partner gets in your way

Procrastinating is worse than arguing if you ask me.

This means that your partner refuses to talk about any problems you have, and instead, becomes withdrawn and distant.

If there is an issue, it should be brought up and discussed, even if it means it might lead to an argument.

Procrastination is an extremely unhealthy way to deal with, or rather, not deal with, a problem.

I’m sorry to say that if you are being held back, this could be another sign that your partner hates you and is giving up on working things out between you.

9) They make constant comparisons

If you keep hearing “My ex was a better cook” or “Look at so-and-so, they really know how to look good” it doesn’t sound like your partner is thinking much about you, right?

The constant comparisons where their ex or other people of the opposite sex look great and you come out as the loser, makes one thing clear – that they are not satisfied. What’s more, they don’t like you.

10) They withdraw affection

Trust me, I know how painful it can be when your partner withdraws their affection – whether physical or emotional.

If you are experiencing persistent and severe withdrawal of affection, this is a valid cause for concern and can be considered a red flag for serious relationship problems.

No matter how hard someone tries to pretend that everything is fine in a relationship, without affection, in the end, everything will fall into place.

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If we look at each of these warning signs separately, they are just a warning sign. These signs don’t necessarily mean that your partner secretly hates you, but they are a clear indicator that something is wrong.

The more signs you discover as being present in your relationship, the greater the chance that you are right, they really hate you.

I recommend confronting your partner about your concerns.

If they claim they don’t hate you, and that this is something else, it might be a good idea to talk to a couples therapist to see if you can get to the bottom of the problem and work on saving your relationship.

good luck!

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