Many of us resort to growing thorns after being hurt. This seems to be the easiest conclusion after several times of trying such things. We like to do this not out of frustration and anger, but because much deeper thoughts remain. We fear that the next person will leave us as easily as the previous person left us. This is not because there are problems with us. There is a lot to the story.
You never expected it. A toxic person will leave you feeling as if all the water in your cup is empty. You have nothing more to offer. No more giving. A toxic person will leave you much worse than the way they found you.
The way they projected all their problems onto you, you were an open target for them. They knew you would fall into the trap every time. This is because you never thought that the person who was supposed to satisfy you with the love you wanted would do this to you. It seemed like everything was your fault. The more and more you try to shower them with emotion, the more they reject it. This wasn’t your fault. I continued to face the same barriers day after day. You felt as if you would soon reach a new path. A new path that will save your relationship.
The truth is that these relationships will leave you emotionally and physically drained. Soon there will be nothing left to give.
This relationship was not meant to be saved. You deserve so much more than just feeling as if all the thoughtful gestures you made weren’t enough. You deserve to have someone who loves you for you. Someone who gives you the same love that you used to give. After several times of being let down, you begin to wonder if you will ever find the love you used to give to others.
you will.
This is because you will know in advance what to look for. Someone who doesn’t have to tear you down to find happiness in themselves. The person who would rather fill you up, rather than leave you empty. The person who doesn’t have to take his anger out on you. This is because this person was supposed to get you back together.
A toxic relationship will teach you a lot about yourself and others. How much are you willing to take? How far others will go to see you fall apart. Just remember that building blocks can always be rebuilt. Don’t let a toxic person destroy the way you love. You will soon find the person who is willing to patiently rebuild you. Let your knowledge lead you straight into that person’s arms.
