You can reveal a lot to a narcissist, and they’ll love you for it.

From vulnerabilities to confessions you’re not allowed to admit—you’ll be a narcissist’s best friend if you raise your hand from time to time.

There’s one thing you should never reveal—unless you want to change your relationship with them forever.

What is it?

Well, it’s funny you should ask, because I’ve got the answer right here.

Narcissists Don’t Actually Love You…

I know it’s not what you want to hear, but if the truth is told, a narcissist already sees you (and everyone else) as an enemy. It’s just the way they operate and play that makes you think differently.

There’s one thing you can say to a narcissist that will ensure that everything changes afterward. It’s not an idea, or even an opinion.

What you’re presenting to them is a fact, and you’re shining it into their eyes so they can’t avoid it.

And when you do that, their dislike for you will quickly turn to hatred.

The One Thing You Should Never Reveal…

“You Meet All the Narcissists’ Requirements”…

Prepare for all hell to break loose.

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Narcissists are never prepared for such a direct hit on their character and everything that is wrong with them. They are never prepared for you to be brave enough to tell the truth.

They are never prepared for you to find out.

What Happens When You Do?

Narcissists love a certain dynamic in relationships, and they work hard to carve it out.

This can look like cutting people off when they need it, or pretending to be someone else’s best friend. If it means getting them what they want, they go all in.

To those who don’t realize it, they come off as nice people when they want to spend time with you. These people don’t realize that there is a plan being made, and they are a big part of it.

So – when these dynamics start to fall apart, narcissists panic. It’s like a house falling apart…

“I built this from scratch, and now it’s falling apart and I have nowhere to live!”

The house of toxicity falls apart when you admit you’ve found out.

They can no longer manipulate you, because you no longer believe their lies or their games. You don’t believe them when they talk, and you see how they cause trouble wherever they go.

I’ve come to realize that the common denominator in all this drama and pain is the narcissist.

They panic.

They rage.

They may even dump you altogether (after all, what good will it do you now that you know the truth?)

I won’t promise you a rose garden if you speak up and are brave, but I do promise a change in your healing.

Smear Campaigns

They’re all too common!

A smear campaign is a deliberate attack on you and your name, on anyone who will listen.

Prepare for lies and gossip to spread about you, your innermost secrets and vulnerabilities to become public.

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Suddenly, you are the problem. You are the crazy one…

…you are the narcissist.

It is hell for those who receive it, but it is done as a means of punishment and diversion.

All the toxicity should be directed at you, not the narcissist. They cannot let anyone else know who they really are.

Victims of narcissistic abuse have been known to lose the people they thought cared about them in the process of the smear campaign. It is painful, and there will always be those who surprise you with who they choose to stand by.

Never let this stop you from standing your ground, and giving your reality the time it deserves and needs.

They Can Do No Contact – But Not In The Way You Want

If you’ve ever tried to read up on how to deal with a narcissist, you’ve probably come across the term “no contact.”

This means cutting off all contact with the toxic person in question, and blocking them wherever possible to avoid future contact.

If you expose a narcissist, be prepared for your lack of contact to have no effect on how they portray you to others.

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In fact, while not hearing or seeing them is a huge benefit to you, they’re busy telling everyone how much of a victim they are, and how you’re punishing them for something they didn’t do.

It’s a total power play to make you feel helpless, and to get back at you for your rude comment calling them a narcissist.

The Best RevengeIs… Keeping Calm

It’s always the best revenge! Keeping your cool is the way you can get through the tough times the narcissist has in store for you.

All the ways they want to make you squirm and regret getting past them will become clear, but you need to do your best to get through it.

What they want is a reaction – but what they need to receive is a smile and your disinterest.

The last thing you want is for the narcissist to feed on your emotions – so don’t give them anything. That way you stay empowered.

Protect Your Reputation By PlayingSmart

When you drop the “I know everything about you” bombshell on the narcissist – it’s too late to back down. My advice is – play smart. Knowing what to do next means you can take steps to protect yourself.

I would start by keeping your cool. Don’t react – no matter how tempting it is.

Remember – the narcissist will want to make you look crazy or unstable – and it’s up to you to prove them wrong. Continue to be you, and you will confuse those who have been told lies about you.

Exposing a narcissist will not make them realize the error of their ways; they will always be a narcissist.

It’s time to keep your peace of mind and avoid adding fuel to their narcissistic fire.

Remember… Narcissists are experts at playing the victim

Narcissists will always try to play the victim wherever possible. It’s not up to you to prove that they’re not – sometimes they can do it themselves by accidentally letting their mask slip.

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If this happens – watch from a distance with a smile.

Narcissists want sympathy after you accuse them of something – especially something as big and subtle as calling them a narcissist!

Never let them make you think, “Wow, maybe I was being a little harsh.” No – you weren’t being harsh. You were being honest, and frankly, you caused the narcissist to panic and force a change in dynamic.

Narcissists want people to care about them and ask if they’re okay. These moments can give the narcissist the perfect opportunity to play the violin and talk about how unfair you’ve been. Let them do it, I say!