Why do you regret losing the woman who waited for you to grow up?
When a woman is finished, she is done.
Remember that part in Sweet Home Alabama when Reese Witherspoon’s character finds out that her estranged husband has been spending his time away building this amazing lightning glass sculpture artwork because he wanted to be a decent person for her, so she quits her job. -The sexy, empty-handed fiancee of the early 2000s (I don’t do rom-coms; sorry if the details are vague) to be with the guy she’s been trying to divorce from the whole movie?
Look, the important thing for women is we’re going to give you 7,000 chances. We believe you can be the best version of yourself, and we want to be there when that happens, which is why so many of us get stuck in terrible relationships with guys who don’t treat us well. (But this is a separate article.)
We really want to believe that when you say you’ll do better, you’ll actually do it this time.
Regret lose women
It’s usual to realize you’ve ruined your chances and utter some awful cliches like, “Well, if you can’t handle me at my worst, then she doesn’t deserve me at my best,” but the truth is, no one is obligated to commit to anyone else’s trash, and no one deserves To build a stressful, drama-filled life because his or her partner can’t take responsibility for his or her destructive choices.
Rejecting her as a means of self-care may hurt your feelings, but your actions likely have a lot to do with her decision.
You had no doubt that the gal who stuck by your side through all your bullshit would stand by you during life’s storms, but what about the people who walked into your life during fair weather?
The woman who loved you at your lowest point already knows your worst — and loved, supported, and encouraged you anyway. This is something that a woman who loves you at your best may experience when the tides turn and she sees the part of you that is flawless.
It will be in those tough moments – when you’re struggling with a new lover who can’t accept your shadows and love you anyway – that you’ll realize the value of the woman who did this before without asking.
