He was charming. Infectious, even. But I was always just his prey. Tongue crooked. I always had my tongue twisted. He always caught me in “lies”. The funny part is that I never tried to be dishonest. He constantly scolds me with questions and accusations. It never stopped.
If this sounds familiar and you think it will stop – you are kidding yourself.
I’ve learned that once you start explaining yourself, you allow someone to question your character.
You are actually subject to their judgment for no reason, and you are forcing yourself to waste time and effort on efforts for nothing more than to keep me as someone comfortable.
Stop.
They distract you from their actions, and more often than not they put it into something completely unrelated to who you really are or what you actually do.
Most of the time, they cling to the straw and get lost in things that may have happened in the past – or may not have happened at all.
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How do I know all this?
I dated Satan for two years.
Saying “Satan” may sound harsh to some of you, but not to those of you who understand what you’ve been through. After abuse and harm, it’s the most accurate word that comes to mind. I might as well call it what it is.
I wish I knew certain things before falling in love with a narcissist!
It was charming, though. contagious to someone like me. I think I might be the protocol for a narcissist’s prey.
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I’m a fun person to perfection, and I, for whatever reason, ask for validation of the person I’m romantically involved with. Perhaps he can smell this, like the smell of a dog smelling horror.
The moment I should have known was the moment he began questioning my character, which was almost instantaneous.
If it constantly bothers you to get more information about your sex life: STOP. Currently. walk away
I wish I knew this before falling in love with a narcissist!
what do you think?
