You might swim in the ocean for him, but you’re not sure he’ll do the same for you. You want him to be with you for the rest of your life, but he is indecisive. He’s always rushing off somewhere and you only get to see a small part of his day (if you’re lucky).
“If he really loved her, he wouldn’t have thought about being with you.” These are probably wise words from a very sad “other woman,” so I found comfort in those words. They are actually nonsense.
You may be his temporary desire, but the truth is that he belongs to her. She is his first choice and the one he is with almost every night.
Yes, he keeps promising you stars and saying everything will get better once he ends his relationship with her. He says he can’t take you out in public and that you should enjoy your time together in private because he wants to do things the right way.
Since he is a sensitive creature who doesn’t want to leave broken hearts behind, he waits for the right moment to be with you.
The only problem is that the right moment will never come and tomorrow will never end.
Do you see what he did there? Maybe he won’t have an affair with you. Maybe you’ve never dated yet, but you’re there now, captivated by the “wait.”
You’re waiting for him to do a rain check and you’re not entirely sure he’ll end up there, but still you wait.
Hope for him will destroy you.
It’s the way our women’s brains work. Look, there’s no need for him to promise you the stars, you’ve already created this perfect future with just the two of you and your dog. I planned it down to the last detail. You hold on to this thought tightly, waiting for it to come and make your dreams come true.
He’s just playing with you. It makes you think he’ll be there in the end. We are so used to waiting for so many things in life that you don’t even have to worry about waiting for them. You made yourself believe that he would come knocking on your door every minute now, and when you opened it, he would be there in front of you, standing with his bag. Since he is a sensitive creature who doesn’t want to leave broken hearts behind, he waits for the right moment to be with you.
The only problem is that the right moment will never come and tomorrow will never end.
Do you see what he did there? Maybe he won’t have an affair with you. Maybe you’ve never dated yet, but you’re there now, captivated by the “wait.”
You’re waiting for him to do a rain check and you’re not entirely sure he’ll end up there, but still you wait.
Hope for him will destroy you.
It’s the way our women’s brains work. Look, there’s no need for him to promise you the stars, you’ve already created this perfect future with just the two of you and your dog. I planned it down to the last detail. You hold on to this thought tightly, waiting for it to come and make your dreams come true.
He’s just playing with you. It makes you think he’ll be there in the end. We are so used to waiting for so many things in life that you don’t even have to worry about waiting for them. You made yourself believe that he would come knocking on your door every minute now, and when you opened it, he would be there in front of you, standing with his bag.
He will come with the words: “Dear, I’m home!” And all your loneliness will be worth the wait.
I hate to break this to you, but it’s not what was promised.
While you’re waiting there, he’s enjoying his time with her. He has no problem showing her to the world or holding her hand in public.
Not you. She’s the one by his side now, and no matter how hard you try, how pretty you are or if you’re better than her, you’ll never be his first choice. He has everything with her, or at least he has most of the things he needs with her.
It suits him, and you are there to fill in the gaps that he feels are missing.
There is no special story. There is no epic love and no closure to look for.
Girl, you’re just wasting your time. You are just letting the most wonderful period of time pass you by. And you couldn’t be more wrong.
You’ll soon realize he’s just making things up.
He comes up with excuses why he can’t leave her. It’s always something else that pops up a minute before he’s finished with her.
What you need to understand is that he is just a player. He’s playing with you. It won’t do you any favors even if he dumps her for you because in the end he might ditch you for someone else too.
