The cornerstone of dating a damn boy is his desire to manipulate a girl for his own pleasure. Here’s how damn boy manipulatives are, if you ever find yourself falling for them!
the curse. A person who preys on people they know will fall in love with them and then immediately dump them once they have had enough of them or find someone better.
The damn boy will say all the good words written in the book just to get your attention. But what little he’s learned has been rehearsed and said a million times over – no wonder he’s already a fraud about it.
So, here’s how Fuckboy manipulates you into loving you
He will do everything for you (in the beginning). It will bring you to places you’ve never been to, and make you feel really special. He will promise you life with him.
He will sweet-talk you on the grounds that he can’t get up another day without you; that you are his first priority; You are his person forever. This is how the damn boy manipulates.
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And all of those words make you feel bad and wonderful and it’s too good to be true.
In the end, you can’t help but think, “Damn it! What did I do to deserve a man like that? Where was I this whole time?”
This is when the boy is sure that he has done a good job. That’s when a smirk begins to form on his lips. That’s when he knows he’s executed the first phase effectively.
You gave him your big “yes” and he celebrated as if getting yes from people was the only thing he could be proud of.
Because that’s how sick the damn boy is. He wants to manipulate people into believing and trusting him and giving him space in your life. A damn boy’s life goal is to make you happy first so he can make himself happier afterward. So he can prove to himself that he can get what he wants just by charming people.
Then, of course, his behavior starts to change, as you notice. He is still aggressive with what he wants to get from you. Every kiss you make with him feels possessive, and every sexual topic he casually brings up in conversation feels inappropriate and kind of disrespectful.
You don’t want to admit to the idea that perhaps the relationship is solely based on sex. You make yourself think he’s still the romantic guy you used to know.
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But alas, a fuckboy will always be a boy – there’s no changing him. He just loves to play and have sex.
Fuckboy is manipulating you!!! I’ve been heartbroken, cheated and manipulated by someone who falls under the definition of a dread. You wasted your time looking for the wrong person.
I enjoyed someone with a short term vision of the future; a guy who views you as “good for the moment”; A man who regards people in a roundabout way as disposable goods. You blamed yourself for ignoring that little warning inside of you for not taking any chances with him.
But you know what they say: “We make mistakes now and then.” No one wants to be manipulated, no one wants to be fooled, and no one wants their hearts to be worn out.
We learn our lessons in the most painful way sometimes. We certainly fall in love with the wrong person, make fools of ourselves in the name of love, and lose sight of the direction we set ourselves before entering a relationship.
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Because we want to live a life with someone special to share it with. And maybe it’s because we’ve been single for so long that we’d take a chance on hopping on a boat with a guy like him. Even if there is a possibility of us being manipulated; Even if this guy turns out to be a smitten boy.
