Building rapport with others can often seem like a difficult puzzle. What makes one person instantly likable, while another struggles to make a positive impression? Psychology has some great insights. There are certain behaviors that, when adopted, can make people…
If you’ve been in a relationship with a narcissist, you’ve likely experienced a range of unpleasant emotions as a result. Most of my clients who have experienced narcissistic abuse have tried to distance themselves from their abuser, but are repeatedly…
Key Points The narcissist’s personality often appears inflated, condescending, self-obsessed, and extremely arrogant.The narcissist’s image usually hides a very fragile self-esteem.The narcissist doesn’t care about others, only what he or she wants to get out of them. “That’s enough of…
Many highly sensitive people have asked me why they so often end up in relationships with narcissists or other negative types of people who take advantage of us, drain our energy, and take our kindness without giving anything in return.…
Key Points A narcissist may treat loved ones as objects by denying them the right to have feelings that are different from their own.A narcissist may use two unconscious defense mechanisms, idealization, and devaluation, to treat loved ones as either…
There is a fine line between charm and manipulation. Charm can be a wonderful quality, making a person seem nice and attractive. But when it is used to hide ulterior motives, that is when charm turns into manipulation. Women who…
Love has been described in countless ways over the centuries by royalty, commoners, singers, fortune tellers, philosophers, religious leaders, doctors, and scientists. Although there is no single definition or description of love, it is generally accepted as a concept of…
Key Points Healthy relationships are based on a sense of balance and a willingness to provide unwavering support and attention when it’s needed. But people who are high in narcissism often demand an endless supply of support without offering anything…
Key Points Narcissistic parents may lack empathy and have unrealistic expectations. Narcissistic parents may expect their children to meet their selfish needs. Children of narcissistic parents may have low self-esteem and difficulty setting boundaries. Adult children of narcissistic parents may…
Since the day I began studying narcissistic leadership, I’ve found no shortage of people eager to share their firsthand experiences with narcissists in various positions of power in the workplace. I’ve heard stories ranging from the mildly disturbing effects of…
