Key Points A narcissist may use the defense mechanisms of idealization and devaluation to gain emotional control. Idealization occurs when the narcissist bombards their partner with love early in the relationship. Devaluation occurs when the narcissist suddenly “abandons” the person…
Key Points Research on delay in rewards shows that the inability to postpone long-term rewards is linked to key aspects of narcissism. By engaging in the protective behavior of accidental future thinking, it is possible to counteract the negative effects…
It is difficult to leave someone in a relationship if you have an emotional connection and concern for the other person’s well-being. For people in a relationship with a narcissist or addict, even though the relationship has been difficult and…
There is a clear difference between being born into a toxic family and finding a way to break free. What sets those who break free? It boils down to a few powerful characteristics. These traits allow individuals to walk away…
When your heart is racing, you know it’s love. When the tears are streaming, you know it’s heartbreak. Ah, the simple language of romance. But, let’s face it, the world of love isn’t always black and white. There are layers…
Children who have a narcissistic parent often experience anxiety when it comes to communicating with that parent. Often, the narcissistic parent can only think about their feelings, and so without realizing it, they neglect to think about what the child…
The Donald Trump phenomenon has led some to question his psychological state and whether he would be an effective president. My analysis is this: Donald Trump is likely not psychologically normal, in the sense that he has a hyper-memory temperament…
Two of my fellow bloggers, Jeremy Sherman and Susan Whitbourne, have been working to bring some much-needed nuance to the popular discussion of narcissism. I want to add to this conversation by pointing out some of the dangers that come…
Home isolation, economic hardship, and disrupted social systems during the pandemic have created stressful conditions for domestic violence. Partners and family members of people with pathological narcissism or narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) are already at high risk for abuse. A…
My dad used to say, “Blood is thicker than water.” But let’s be honest, family relationships aren’t always rainbows and butterflies. Sometimes, they can be downright toxic. But psychology has some answers for you. As you can see, dealing with…
