Ultimately, we are only human. We need other people in our lives. We all want to feel like we belong — like we matter to someone who matters to us.
However, we cannot force others to be with us and love us. Sometimes, no matter how hard we try, we just can’t keep some people in our lives.
That’s how things are and you have to accept them as they are because you can’t change anything. Feelings cannot be forced. Friendships shouldn’t be forced. Love doesn’t have to be by force.
You must realize that sometimes it just isn’t intentional, no matter how much you want it to happen.
You should be comfortable with the fact that you will not have everything and everyone you want in life.
Nobody does. That’s enough consolation, isn’t it?
Love is not that simple, nor is friendship. It’s something you can’t mess around with, and for it to work, you have to fight for it every day.
This doesn’t mean that you should set some unrealistic expectations for love and friendship. You will feel helpless if it doesn’t work out.
Some people won’t choose you no matter what you do for them, and that’s their loss, not yours.
You’ll say, “It’s easy to say, but it hurts so much” when it actually happens to you. I know. I’ve been there myself. I was hurt too.
I. The most confident woman ever. I felt hurt, angry, betrayed, and crushed.
All those terrible feelings mixed up inside me and I couldn’t see the real picture in this situation. All I saw was his rejection.
No one has ever made me feel this way before. Well, no one could because I had the best opinion of myself. My confidence was my strength.
He did not allow me to give up in any situation, no matter how difficult.
until that time. The irony is that his rejection didn’t make me doubt myself, in fact it made me curious about the reasons why he rejected me.
How does he do this? You were the most perfect girl for him. In fact, you’re better than that.
Every day I blamed him for not seeing him. Because he rejected me when I was all he wanted. I was sure of it, which is why his refusal was unclear to me.
I have always considered confidence to be one of my best personality traits because I believed it would help me deal with any bad days and hurt feelings.
I’ve always thought heartbreak was the worst thing a girl could feel. But I was wrong. Feeling rejected hurts even more.
It causes greater emotional pain and can leave some psychological wounds that do not heal easily. I learned that the hard way, unfortunately.
Psychologists say that of all the emotional wounds we face in life, rejection is the most common and painful.
Being confident couldn’t help me. I was aware of my worth and knew that I would find someone else who would choose me no matter what.
But it still hurts. The pain I felt was inexplicable. All I could think about were the reasons why he rejected me, what part of me he didn’t like, and why he didn’t even want to try something with me.
After some time, I realized that we were not meant to be. This was the only important thing I needed to know from the beginning. It was his choice and I couldn’t do anything about it.
Except to leave. And I did. I let go of all those terrible feelings.
I was hoping for a better future and a man who wanted my love and would be able to return it the way I deserved.
And trust me, this is the best advice you’ll ever get: the faster you move forward in life, the sooner you’ll forget all about the terrible feeling of rejection.
But your self-esteem and self-love still play an important role. If you are not confident, you will be more likely to be rejected.
People have every right and freedom to choose who they want and what they want. You can influence their decisions by doing nice things for them, but you can never choose for them.
Rejection doesn’t mean you’re not enough. In most cases, the problem is the other person, not you.
You should never let rejection affect you. Be stronger than that. It will pass and you will eventually forget about it as if it never happened.
