Poetry has always been a powerful medium for expressing complex emotions and experiences. In this blog post, we will explore the topic of narcissism through a collection of poems that delve into the mind and experience of a narcissist.
ButWhenIMetTheNarcissist by Naya Lizard
This poem written by Naya Lizard and published on Medium explores the topic of surviving and recovering from a relationship with a narcissist. It is a powerful testament to the resilience and human spirit in the face of such a destructive character.
I thought I could fly and shoot down stars,
But when I met the narcissist, I crashed and burned.
I thought I could reach the pinnacle of joy and exhilaration,
But with him, my dreams of love turned to ruin.
I thought I could trust and never be deceived,
But the narcissist showed me how to betray trust.
It was a painful journey, I know,
But it made me realize that I had to grow.
I learned the importance of being persistent and courageous,
And trusting my intuition, and heeding the warnings it gave me.
Knowing when to set boundaries, when to be strong, and never letting anyone wrong me again.
Becoming a mature, compassionate person who stands on my own two feet.
In the end, I will be proud of the journey I had to complete.
I will not give in to pressure, I will not go with the flow.
I decide where I go.
I don’t need anyone’s permission to be who I want to be.
I am no longer afraid to pursue my dreams, I am free.
NarcissistInsecurity by Fahim Chughtai
Fahim Chughtai’s collection Narcissist Hunters presents a collection of poems that explore different aspects of narcissism, from the charm of narcissism to the devastating effects of narcissistic abuse.
Exploring narcissism through these poems provides a unique insight into the mind of a narcissist. Below, I reproduce one of his poems, focusing on the painful insecurities of narcissists.
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Beneath the surface of narcissists’ charm lies a fragile ego, easily damaged.
Their need for admiration is a mask for their pain.
Their insecurities are a burden that drives them mad.
They seek attention, to fill a void.
Their self-confidence is a facade, easily destroyed.
They seek attention, to fill a void.
Their self-confidence is a facade, easily destroyed.
Their insecurities run deep and are hidden from view.
Their need for validation, and their constant struggle.
Their love is conditional, and fades very quickly.
Leaving them alone, in a world of the past.
Their need for admiration, a way to feel complete
But this leaves them empty, with an empty soul.
Their insecurity is a burden, hard to bear,
Drives them to seek attention, everywhere.
Their world is full of empty promises.
Their love is a game, with only one purpose.
Control, manipulation, and power,
Leave them alone, in their ivory tower.
Their insecurity is a burden, driving them crazy
Feeling the need to prove themselves, and constant sadness.
Their love is a tool, to make themselves feel good,
But this leaves them empty, in a world of hatred.
Their need for admiration, never satisfied
Leaving them alone, in a world of their own
Their insecurity is a burden, hard to bear,
Drives them to seek attention, everywhere.
So if you encounter the charm of a narcissist
Remember that their world is full of hurt.
Their insecurities are a heavy burden to bear, which makes them seek attention everywhere. Fahim Chughtai
Shadows of a Narcissist by Carla Corelli
I wrote this poem on a day when I was feeling sad and grieving for what might have been. It helped clear my mental fog and reminded me that I am moving toward healing and better days.
FreedomFromNarcissism is hard, but it is worth it.
In the heart of the narcissist, mirrors replace windows,
Reflecting only the self, in endless echoes.
A world painted with strokes of grandeur,
Where compassion finds no reciprocity.
They charm and bewitch with a dazzling smile,
They draw you in, mile after mile.
Promises woven like a spider’s web,
Reality twisted, and truth recedes.
Their love feels as radiant as the sun,
But it is a love that burns, not a love that triumphs.
A puppeteer pulls the heartstrings,
In their world, they are kings.
But beneath the surface, something is wrong,
A painful feeling, a growing abyss.
Words that hurt, actions that belittle,
Caught in the crossfire, stuck in the middle.
The narcissist’s dance is a dangerous game,
A cycle of love and pain, never quite the same.
Intoxicating highs, devastating lows,
In the shadows of the narcissist, true colors emerge.
But remember this, when all seems lost,
Escape from the narcissist has a price.
But the price of freedom, of liberation,
is worth more than survival, don’t you see?
So gather your courage, gather your strength,
Let the healing rain begin to fall.
For eventually, you will find your way,
Beyond the shadows, into the light of day.
Carla Corelli
ThePower of Poetry
Understanding a narcissist and the effects of narcissistic abuse can be a complex and challenging process. However, poetry can serve as a powerful tool in this journey of understanding.
Here’s Why:
- Emotional Expression
Poetry is a medium that thrives on emotional expression.
It allows the poet to explore and express their feelings in ways that may not be possible in everyday conversation.
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This makes it an ideal platform for victims of narcissistic abuse to express their feelings, and for readers to empathize with these experiences.
- Insight into the Mind of a Narcissist
Poems about narcissism can provide unique insights into the mind of a narcissist.
Through metaphor, imagery, and other poetic devices, poets can portray the grandiosity, entitlement, lack of empathy, and manipulative tactics that characterize narcissists.
This can help readers understand the thought processes and behaviors of narcissists, which may otherwise be difficult to understand.
- Healing and Purification
For victims of narcissistic abuse, writing and reading poetry can be a form of healing.
The act of putting their experiences into words can be helpful, helping them process their feelings and come to terms with their experiences.
Likewise, reading poems about similar experiences can provide comfort, validation, and reassurance that they are not alone.
- Raising Awareness
Poetry about narcissism and narcissistic abuse can help raise awareness of this often misunderstood and overlooked form of abuse.
By highlighting these experiences, these poems can educate the public. They challenge stereotypes and encourage further research and discussion on the topic.
Final Reflections
In conclusion, while clinical descriptions and psychological theories can provide valuable insights into narcissism, poems offer a deeply personal and emotional exploration of this complex phenomenon.
Through the power of the written word, we can gain a more nuanced understanding of narcissism and the effects of narcissistic abuse.
