When it comes to feeling sorry for toxic people, here’s a piece of advice: don’t. When you try to understand why they act the way they do, and what is the story behind their toxicity, you are doing exactly what they want you to do. It is feeling sorry for them and getting entangled in their sinister web of lies and deceit.

The more empathy, concern, and kindness their victim shows them, the more they will feed off their emotions and energy. This will gradually turn into abuse, after which it will be difficult to come back from that.

Now, are you thinking about how you can stop feeling sorry for toxic people, including narcissists, sociopaths, and even narcotics?

The answer is simple, but not entirely clear. One must make full use of his logical mind…and try in the future to provoke an inner change inspired by recovery from narcissistic abuse.

How can you stop feeling sorry for toxic people?

Narcissistic people are also known as the Group B personality type, and narcissistic abuse recovery experts always say that the most challenging part of dealing with them is realizing that what they’re doing is wrong, and only you can put a stop to that. . You have to let go of your tunnel vision, and stop your heart dictating your mind.

People who are naturally good on the inside, especially empaths, are seen as the right kind of prey by narcissists. Empaths tend to make the mistake of thinking they will be able to change narcissists for the better, despite knowing their true nature. They are constantly grappling with themselves about the eternal dilemma of whether they should give in, or continue trying to make the relationship work.

Causing physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual pain to others, especially those they love from the bottom of their hearts is what defines a narcissist, or a Group B individual. Whether they are toxic friends, toxic partners, or even toxic parents, dancing is the same for them.

Emotionally wounded people never intentionally look to hurt others, because they know what pain feels like. But people who are insecure, incomplete, and dissatisfied with who they are, are always looking to put others down, to make themselves feel better, even if it’s just for a few seconds.

Because of narcissistic abuse, the wounded tend to suffer from several physical ailments resulting from constant stress and toxicity. This can also include many mental health conditions such as anxiety, depression, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).

Why are good people always the target of narcissists?

As long as highly sensitive people fail to understand that narcissistic predators do not care about their feelings and feelings, and if they continue to try to see the good in them, they will waste much of their precious time by inadvertently turning themselves into sources of narcissistic supply. It is a fact of life that good people are always looking to help others, and helping others is what makes them feel good about themselves.

It could be an act as simple as helping a turtle cross the road by stopping your car and putting it in the garden, turning on the hazard lights, helping a young child get from one place to another more appropriately, or petting a dog and seeing its tail wag back and forth.

Or it could be something as simple as complimenting a stranger – telling them something as simple as you like their smile without indicating the need for more contact.

It can also mean taking some of your time to be with someone who is grieving, helping a friend in a personal crisis, or just helping a random stranger with the right directions to the supermarket.

When a person gives giving, it creates a wave of pleasurable sensations throughout the body, mind, and spirit. People who are compassionate and kind by nature, whenever they feel down, sad or depressed all they need to do to feel better and safe is to look back on a happy and positive thought. Sometimes seeing positive things, or just seeing happy things on social media can help them feel hopeful, safe, and secure.

Narcissists look for victims who are exactly like that — upbeat, positive, optimistic, and most importantly, giving. Since good people have so much narcissistic display in them, it tempts narcissists to no end. People Pleasers are also seen as potential and even ideal victims of narcissistic abuse.

The more flattering a person is by nature, the more likely he is to sacrifice himself in order to fulfill his nature. They are always looking to solve other people’s problems, and when they do, their happiness knows no bounds. Unfortunately, happy people tend to be mostly born into toxic families with toxic genes within them.

With science advancing each passing day and getting closer to answers as to why some people develop predatory and selfish behaviors, there’s a different side to this story too – it’s that sometimes, good things can also come out of dark and cruel situations.

Interestingly, group B parents with the right type of DNA can give birth to a kind, happy, loving, and positive child, with a strong sense of emotional intelligence and emotional intuition. Making people happy is very good at detecting a person’s emotions and feelings quite accurately. The better they are at this, the more they will feel the need to help people. However, if they refuse to see the danger of trying to help a toxic narcissist, they will likely be stuck in a toxic cycle for a very long time.

Stuck in a hopelessly unfortunate situation for far too long. When a people-pleasing person fails to understand that other humans can relate differently, they become easily deceived and fall into the patterns of a savior or someone with Stockholm Syndrome.

The more a nice person grieves over the loss of a Group B person, the more likely they are to spend a lot of time worrying and grieving for the other person. A kind, empathetic person will do their best in every possible social interaction to help the other person realize the error of their ways.

Similarly, perceiving a B person to lack or miss the joy of giving or being nice simply because their brain is wired differently is not just tunnel vision, it is EGOCENTRIC. This means that a person who expects the same reward stimulus to excite a narcissist, sociopath, psychopath, narco path, Enabler, or even an empath simply believes that what makes them happy toxic people will be happy too. Do you see the problem here?

What do toxic people think?

Narcissists love to brag to others about how “cool” they are, and being the center of attention is what makes them the happiest. Not only that, they are always looking to destroy their competitors, and anyone they feel can push them out of the limelight.

People with HPD tend to be the type to storm into a room, force the spotlight on them by making themselves an absolute fool, and then leave as suddenly as they came. They are the drama queens of the group, always looking to grab attention with their annoying antics.

On the other hand, Empaths are always looking to connect with others on an emotional and mental level and look forward to building meaningful and positive relationships. No matter what they do, they always try to leave everything better than it was when they found it, and making a good difference, wherever they do, is what really makes them feel happy and fulfilled.

But what stimulates the pleasure centers in one person’s brain may not be the same for others.

A sadist may set out to personally attempt to torment another living, breathing or breathing being or directly harm anyone’s reputation by concocting some ridiculous smear campaign to defame him. A sociopath may thoroughly enjoy feeling blocked by the person they love and trust constantly and strongly.

When an ordinary, respectable person buys a house or receives a long-awaited promotion at work, how does he feel? Happy and excited, right? Well, this is how an ordinary person with normal intelligence and brain behaves. Things like this give them happiness and pleasure. But for a physical narcissist, it’s not the same story. For them, buying a home or getting a promotion is a way to compete with others, even when there is no one else to compete with.

This is because, for each Group B personality, every effort, social interaction, and life change is simply a manifestation of their inherent sense of endless, toxic competitiveness.

It is quite clear that what produces happiness in one type of person is likely to produce a dull reaction in another, when the brain lacks the ability to perceive the cause of the other person.

Related: Why You Should Never Expect Emotional Support From A Narcissist

Are toxic people really unhappy on the inside?

When you were young, were you ever told that mean people are not happy inside, have many emotional problems, and are full of insecurities? Well, it doesn’t always turn out to be 100% accurate, you know.

Group B personalities always think of themselves and their needs first, to the detriment of everyone else. This means that the alpha lion in the family eats first, then the lioness, and the scraps go to their babies.

When a group B person targets prey, their pride comes after the leader to assist in the kill. Once they have secured their meal for the day, they will lurk, taking bites of prey—but usually not until after the larger or stronger animal has eaten their proverbial filler.

This is how toxic and dysfunctional families work. A person who is emotionally intelligent, sensitive, mature, and intuitive is mentally and psychologically attacked again and again by the Alpha Predator.

Following this person’s lead, other toxic family members will swoop in to actively engage in teasing, teasing, shaming, ridiculing, gaslighting for fun, or actively participating in making them mad.

Making others miserable activates the pleasure center in the brain of a Group B individual just as helping someone out of a crisis or during an emotionally turbulent period helps Empath feel fulfilled and accomplished.

This is where the empaths go wrong. They believe that what floats their boat, floats other people’s boats too, and helping and loving others makes them happy too. But the truth is not always like that. For this reason, there is always a stark difference between them and the people of Group B. Expecting everyone to be like them isn’t how it works, and it never has, to be honest.

Should we respect others in terms of accepting them as they are rather than seeking to change them?

definitely.

So, these people who have been scapegoated and abused and abused again and again, should they simply accept and condone selfishness? Should they simply focus on moving on from the toxic behavior they experienced? no. A large amount of fat.

So, how do you deal with toxic people and not feel sorry for them at the same time?
Group B people need to be handled with kid gloves all the time, and while this may sound silly, it’s the truth. Whatever they say, it must be treated as a virus that has the potential to cause the moral and emotional decay of human beings and their minds.

Related: What Is Narcissism?

The right way to feel the time and if sad feeling harboring sympathy for a narcissist, social narcissist, or narcissistic bubbles/malignant psychopath. Group B people tend to feel very attached to their victims, especially those who hurt them the most. Because of this, they are always obsessed with people who never give them the time of day, nor are they really attracted to their status, power, or money. This annoys them to no end, and they are always looking to harm them in any way possible.

This feeling is similar to the feeling that ordinary, decent people feel happy and satisfied when they are loved and respected by others, or when they help animals and people simply because they feel it is necessary.

Having trouble controlling their impulses, excessive pleasure-seeking, and selfish behavior puts most Narcopaths socially and emotionally in the position that they finally get bored, are willing to go to any lengths to make themselves feel better and validated, and sometimes even cause it. They hurt themselves.

Most of the time, you will notice that toxic people are who they are, because of the inherent boredom they feel within themselves. The moment they get bored and feel they have nothing to do, they start drinking compulsively, and indulge in drugs. This makes them more volatile and toxic, and it’s only a matter of time before they lose their toxicity and shoot their victims.