Want to melt his heart this Valentine’s week? Do you want to make him fall in love with you? Well, there is a secret to making him want you and it’s easier than you can imagine. It all depends on what exactly you say to him, when you say it, and how you say it to him. If you do this right, he will be instantly attracted to you. But how do you make a man fall in love with you?

As you’ve probably heard all your life, actions speak louder than words. And while this is true, there are still some phrases that will make him fall in love with you. But what are these strange words? Read this Valentine’s Day post to find out.

Hi ladies, my name is Amy North, I am a relationship coach from Vancouver, Canada. Today, I want to share with you 5 phrases that will hit a man so hard that he will be desperate for your love and affection.

Let’s get started.

5 Phrases that will make him fall in love with you instantly

1. “Could you do me a favor?”
   It’s no secret that men love to feel masculine—especially around their ladies. So, what better way to win him over than by commenting on his manhood? Saying things like, “You’re so strong,” or “What big muscles you have,” is undoubtedly cheesy.

But don’t worry, there are other ways to send the same message while maintaining your cool, calm, and collected demeanor.

For example, next time you need to open something, ask for his help or if you can’t reach something, ask for his help. Letting him know you need him and feeling safe around him not only makes him feel good, but when you make him feel like a man, it will keep him wanting to be around you.

And for the record, asking for help doesn’t make you needy, weak, or a damsel in distress. So don’t worry about that. Instead, asking for help shows him that you are aware of his physical capabilities and will appreciate his help.

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2. “I love your style.”

As I’ve heard from other relationship experts, commenting on someone’s appearance isn’t always the most convincing thing you can do. Why? Because this person did not choose his appearance. They inherited them from their parents. However, commenting on someone’s unique personal style is another story entirely.

Like women, men love it when women acknowledge and compliment the effort they put into their appearance. Not only does it tell him that he’s been successful at looking good but it also tells him that you notice the little things.

Saying something like, “I like that sweater,” or “Your pants are a great color,” will boost his confidence and make him feel good around you. In other words, you will make him fall in love with you.

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3. “You are truly committed, hard-working, focused…” etc.
   Do you know how it feels when someone comments on a talent or skill that you have? It feels good, right? Well, he thinks so too.

Find your man’s talents and talk about them. However, similar to the appearance vs. style issue, you don’t want to comment on anything too obvious. If he wasn’t working full time, praise for his writing ability wouldn’t make him over the moon.

Instead, talk about the less obvious traits. Sticking with the example of writing, you could comment on his ability to focus or his dedication to his work. These kinds of phrases would elicit an even greater response from him because he was not used to hearing them.

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4. “You are so smart.”
   There is no denying that men love to feel strong and masculine around women. And a big part of feeling that way is knowing that you respect him and his opinions.

Letting a guy know that you think he’s wise, smart, smart, and cool will make him fall in love with you. An easy way to show him this is by letting him know that you value his opinion.

To do this, ask him your tough questions whether it is explaining worldly politics, geography lessons, or music lessons, and let him show off his big and exciting mind. When he does, you’ll notice him glowing. Even better, when you’re the one who makes him feel smart, he’ll want you to be the one he stays close to.

5. “I support you.”

Again, this can be worn, however, as you see fit. But the point is to encourage your man in whatever aspirations, dreams, goals, and ambitions he has. Your support can inspire him to be a better man.

When you are his biggest fan and he knows you are in his corner, he will fall in love with you. To do this, be the person who can share all of their thoughts and dreams away from judgment. Even if you think his chances of becoming the next Jimi Hendrix are slim, cheer him on. He will love you for that.

I hope these phrases will change your Valentine’s Day forever.

Did you know that there is a state of desire that is stronger than love?

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