When you’re stuck in a toxic relationship, you think there’s no way out and that you’ll always be with the person who hurt you.
You feel like you’re not strong enough to walk away, and you’re afraid no one will be able to love you again because you’re broken.
It is a state of mind that you are not good enough or worthy enough to provide the love someone needs.
And that feeling eats you alive because you don’t feel good about yourself. That’s why you choose to prolong your suffering and stay with your toxic partner.
I know it is never easy to stay away from someone you love, but you should think about your happiness in that relationship.
If this is not something that satisfies you and if you are not receiving the love you need, then you should leave.
You know, sometimes it’s better to let go because there’s nothing to hold on to. If you recognize yourself in at least one of these signs, it means you are struggling to walk away from your toxic relationship.
Maybe once you read these signs, it will become clear to you that you deserve much better than almost love.
- You are not with him out of love but out of habit
You know that it is very difficult to break bad habits, but staying in a toxic relationship is the worst thing you can do to yourself.
When you think twice, you will realize that you are not with your man because you love him, but because you need him.
You think you’ll be helpless without him and that no one wants you that way – all broken and emotionally scarred.
What you don’t know is that staying in that kind of atmosphere will be more painful than getting rid of someone who isn’t a good fit for you anyway.
- You still believe things will get better
You see, this happens because you are in a long-term relationship and you thought that you both had bigger problems and that you would overcome that problem as well.
But you don’t see that this is not just a problem, but a state in which you completely lose yourself.
If you keep doing this, you will end up without any self-respect and will get depressed for not saving yourself on time.
- You don’t want another woman to get what you made from your partner
When two people are in a long-term relationship, there are some things that each of them learns. Even if those are just little things, they mean a lot.
You’ve probably taught your man to put dirty clothes in the hamper or to wash the dishes after he eats.
Before he met you, he didn’t know that you didn’t want another woman to take advantage of your hard work.
But please think twice because he is not worth staying with – he will never be the man of your dreams.
- You don’t want to give up all those happy moments together
Your relationship was good but also some bad days. Since you are still blind in love, you completely ignore all those bad things and think only about the good things.
That’s why you don’t want to give up all those happy moments you shared between you.
You don’t want to forget those times when he wasn’t toxic to you.
You want to live in the belief that he will change and that he will love you as you deserve.
- Sometimes he shows that he loves you
But you better be careful because this is a trap: he does it when he sees that you can leave him.
This is just his way of controlling you by telling you that he is guilty of some things but is willing to change because of you and your love.
He will use all kinds of tricks to convince you that your place is with him and that no one will love you like he does.
- You are afraid to live without him
Since you’ve been in a long-term relationship, you have no idea what your life will be like after you leave him.
Therefore, you feel safer when you are with him even if he is toxic and you know it.
She had been in that relationship too long and she no longer knew how to act in public without him.
Even if this sounds strange, it happens to many women in toxic relationships.