Love is hard, and so are relationships, especially with all the dating trends like ghosting and love bombing.
Moreover, there are some really bad types of men that you should avoid like the plague, because they will make your life a living hell.
Even as you read this now, someone has popped into your head and you can remember the hell they put you through.
I’m sure you know more types of men to add to this list but these are the absolute worst.
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These men are never ready to fully commit to you and give you what you need and that is a steady and healthy relationship.
He is so stuck in the past that he cannot look forward to the future. Maybe he was just using you as a rebound girl or tried to hide the fact that he just got out of a relationship, which is even worse.
He is not honest with you from the beginning and you cannot expect a healthy relationship if it is built on dishonest foundations.
The worst he can do to you is lead you to fall madly, deeply in love, and just when you think you’re there, he’s not ready to move on.
He’s not ready for another serious relationship, and the moment he realizes that, he’ll ghost you.
Unambitious men
Men who have no ambitions will always hold you back. They are perfectly fine being stuck in one place, doing nothing and living day to day.
You cannot expect a future with this type of man because he is not interested in working for it.
Even if you try to motivate him, you will end up losing your motivation.
There is nothing less attractive than men who have no ambitions, especially these days when you need to put in a lot of effort to make your life good.
Men with anger issues
One moment he’s fine, the next all hell breaks loose. Men with anger issues will hide it for as long as possible but you can actually see the signs of it.
If something is not done his way, he gets stressed and angry and shuts down completely.
He’s not interested in talking about it, and he’s not interested in looking for a solution. And trust me, the only thing he cares about is screaming and punching.
If you encounter this kind of man, run for your life, because who can say that one day you won’t be the one to punch him?
Workaholics
Unlike unambitious men, all they care about is work, success, and putting in a great deal of effort.
But what happens when you need him to slow down and just enjoy the moment with you?
For him, work is the only priority in his life. He can tell you that’s not the case, but when you need him, he’s at work.
When he’s late for dinner, you know he’s at work. When he leaves you hanging, know that he did it because of work.
You cannot expect him to make you and his relationship with you his priority, because work is the only love in his life that he is willing to sacrifice for.
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These are men who act like emotional leeches. Because of their love of possession, they slowly take away everything that matters to you.
When you want to spend time with your friends, he makes you feel guilty for staying with him.
When you need to see your family, he will either accompany you or force you to stay home again.
They are good at manipulation and getting what they want, which is you. It doesn’t have a life of its own, so it takes yours too.
He will act clingy and needy, while justifying it by saying that he loves you so much that he can’t think about anything or anyone else.