He wants to use you in his sick games
Even if your narcissistic ex is no longer a part of your life, he or she will do everything in his power to be close to you.
You see, you may have ended your relationship but he doesn’t accept that.
He can’t accept the fact that you are no longer his victim and he will use you however he wants.
He can’t deal with the fact that he can’t suck all your energy and make you feel miserable just so he can feel better. He can’t accept that you decided to move on.
That’s why he will act like someone you don’t know just to get back at you. Since he is good at psychology, he won’t do it right away.
He’ll leave you alone for a few days until you start thinking about him more.
And when you’re at your most vulnerable, when you’re alone in the middle of the night, he’ll send you a text telling you how much he misses you.
He will make up a story so sad that your sympathetic soul will probably fall in love with it.
But what he does is just lead you on and get what he wants. He doesn’t want to love you, he wants to suck you dry, and once he’s done with you, move on to another victim.
He can’t handle the fact that you ended the relationship
He was in control all the time in your relationship while you obeyed all of his rules.
Your voice couldn’t be heard and you did exactly what he wanted.
You were everything he wanted you to be but suddenly something changed. You have decided to put a complete end to your relationship.
You woke up from a dream and refused to be abused by the man you loved the most.
You ruined all his plans by leaving him and that’s the main reason why he always follows you.
He will not give you any peace because he has no one to abuse him anymore.
You hurt his ego, which is the most important thing to him, and that is something he will never forgive you for.
That’s why it will always be there wherever you go. He will try to do everything in his power to ruin your life just because things did not go his way.
So, when he comes and tells you that he wants to be your friend, don’t believe it.
Please don’t buy it because giving him a chance to be close to you again is like giving him another shot to kill you because he messed up the first time.
He wants to keep you close until he breaks up with you
If you end a relationship with a narcissist, he or she will likely come after you later.
You see, he can’t stand the fact that you suddenly got all this power and decided to assert yourself with him.
He was the strong one in your relationship while you were the submissive one. But you changed and it happened without his consent.
Surprising him like this was definitely not what he wanted. That’s why he’ll do anything to stay friends with you.
By remaining your friend, he will have another chance to hurt you.
He’ll get another chance to brainwash you, and if he’s good enough, you’ll believe him.
If he behaves well, you will return to him and you will suffer again. If he told you complete lies, everything would be the same again.
That’s why you shouldn’t let him get close to you. You shouldn’t believe what he says.
You should run as soon as you see him because he won’t waste any time.
He will act quickly. He will use every moment to deceive you. He will try to grab you with his claws again.
Please be strong and don’t let that happen.
He can’t bear to see you happy
He was the strong one in your relationship while you were the submissive one. But you changed and it happened without his consent.
Surprising him like this was definitely not what he wanted. That’s why he’ll do anything to stay friends with you.
By remaining your friend, he will have another chance to hurt you.
He’ll get another chance to brainwash you, and if he’s good enough, you’ll believe him.
If he behaves well, you will return to him and you will suffer again. If he told you complete lies, everything would be the same again.
That’s why you shouldn’t let him get close to you. You shouldn’t believe what he says.
You should run as soon as you see him because he won’t waste any time.
He will act quickly. He will use every moment to deceive you. He will try to grab you with his claws again.
Please be strong and don’t let that happen.
He can’t bear to see you happy
Another reason your narcissistic ex wants you to be friends is because he or she wants access to the sexual relationship.
If you remain friends with him, he will eventually take advantage of the situation to try to sleep with you.
This is definitely not what you need right now. Now that you’ve gained the strength to get away from him, don’t ruin everything by returning to him and his narcissistic ways.
He will use you and throw you away, just like he did the last time.
You’ll end up sad, not knowing what to do next. Your head will be a mess and you will regret going back to it often.
That’s why you shouldn’t accept his invitation, no matter how nice or nice he is. Don’t give him friend benefits if he’s not your friend.
Because once you enter this hell again, you won’t be able to get out. Be strong and don’t go back to him again.
Trust me, this is the best way.
He wants to control you again
He once controlled you and felt empowered. But when she left him, his whole world collapsed.
He couldn’t believe you were strong enough to do something like this.
But you did and he was like a wounded wolf, licking his wounds and trying to come up with a plan to get you back.
Because he doesn’t miss you, he misses control over you.
His personality disorder makes it impossible for him to act like a normal person.
He needs to hurt someone in order to feel good.
The easiest way is for someone you love to hurt you to the moon and back. He had all the control he wanted and he wanted it back.
That’s why he will try to use any means necessary to win you back.
He will tell you that he has changed and that he will treat you better. He will lie that he loves you and that he doesn’t want to lose you.
But the real truth is that he is just trying to find a good way to sneak back into your life again so he can abuse you mentally and physically. Please don’t let him get away with this and stay away from him.
Give yourself a chance at a new life and forget all about him.
Someone else will know how to cherish all the love and affection you have. Someone else will love you like your ex didn’t know how to.
