Excuse me, I just want to know…
Why can’t you answer?
Hello? Is anyone here?
Nobody here. Nobody deserves it anyway.
You have questions, and I get that. You want and need answers. Narcissists make people feel this way because they hide so much from us.
They intentionally leave pieces of the puzzle missing for you to guess and assume.
These nine questions linger in the minds of people influenced by narcissists, and I want to tell you not only what they are, but why they never get answered.
Bursting Questions…
We all have questions on our plate that we long for a narcissist to answer.
The problem is, what do we do with these questions because we know the narcissist won’t be honest with us?
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And yet each question fades away, with nowhere to go.
Will you ever get the answers?
It depends on the type of question. Narcissists are capable of brutal honesty, and if you’re willing to listen to what they have to say, you’ll receive this answer in very direct terms.
The questions I wanted to ask you will never be answered, but that doesn’t mean we don’t hope they don’t at least try.
Hello Narcissist! Answer these nine questions!
- Why are you an energy vampire?
Narcissists suck the life out of everyone they meet. Just when you feel like you’re having a good day, it’s taken away from you when you meet one of them.
They don’t want you to have a good day. Your life means nothing to them, so ruining it is just something they do to pass the time.
You may wake up full of happiness and hope, and the narcissist will find you and steal it.
This is why many victims feel like they’ve lost everything. Exhaustion can be a sign that you’ve overstayed your welcome in the narcissist’s city.
Asking a narcissist why they’re an energy vampire is an interesting way to understand how and why they act.
They have no moral compass or conscience about why they act this way, leaving people like you and me baffled.
But wouldn’t it be nice to have an explanation?
Come on, we need answers!
- What happened to you?
Seriously, what happened to you to make you so cold and evil?
Why did you become this way?
Why didn’t anyone rescue you from the clutches of entitlement as a child?
What path did you take to get here?
Sit down with the narcissist and explore their backstory would be helpful for all victims. This isn’t an excuse for their toxic actions, but it certainly helps understanding.
Of course, those who are deprived of love will end up this way.
Of course, those with parents who demand perfection or else they will end up being narcissists.
But wouldn’t it be great to have a description attached to that face?
- Why can’t you be happy for other people?
I think getting any narcissist to answer this question honestly would be a very difficult task. However, knowing why they can’t be happy for other people would be refreshing.
It would also be refreshing to smile and say “well done” without wanting to outdo them in any way. Unfortunately, we don’t live in that world.
We all want narcissists to be in charge of their emotions, and jealousy is one of the most important emotions I’m referring to.
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Why can’t you applaud when someone else wins?
I can tell you right now—the reason is this:
Narcissists hate drawing attention to anyone but themselves. They love to be first, to win, to be better, and to appear more successful than anyone else they know.
- What have you done that was so terrible?
This is a personal question you might want a narcissist to answer.
Whatever they put you through and how they make you feel.
Why?!
Why?!
Narcissists know you didn’t do anything terrible to deserve their abuse. They simply see you as the one who will endure it the longest.
Yes, the abuse itself is horrible. But that doesn’t mean you are either.
- Why can’t you see what you’re doing?
Huh?
Do you want the narcissist to reflect on what they’re doing?
Do you want them to suddenly realize that they might be upsetting and hurting others? Do you want them to understand that their harsh, sometimes even vicious, words have consequences?
Imagine!
- Why can’t you live in peace?
Narcissists don’t know what peace means. All they know is to stir up conflict and stir up trouble in situations that would otherwise be perfectly normal.
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If narcissists lived in a peaceful world, they wouldn’t last more than five seconds before getting bored. That’s why they have to create chaos and blame you!
- Why do you lie all the time?
Lying gets me out of trouble.
Lying turns me on.
Lying makes me seem more interesting than I really am.
Lying gets you into trouble instead of me.
Lying creates conflict.
Lying is fun.
You won’t hear a narcissist say any of this because they don’t want you to know the truth.
We wish we could. It would be fun to hear!
- Why do you want to make others feel so bad?
Narcissists hate it when you feel happy, so feeling bad is everyone’s goal.
Let this moment be the only reason not to shower narcissists with love. You’ll ultimately find no genuine intentions, no heart that cares about what you say or share.
People feel bad around narcissists. They have this amazing way of eliciting feelings of inadequacy and low self-esteem from those they can provoke.
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And while they do this, they feel good because you feel bad.
- Why are strangers more important than me?
Narcissists want to impress those they don’t know because they see them as a blank slate.
They must present themselves perfectly, even if they only have 30 seconds to impress a stranger. They want those 30 seconds to be unforgettable.
What an amazing parent/partner/boss!
How wonderful to know this person!
Yes, that’s what they want people to think they are.
You? You know them. You know their personality quirks, and you know how they can be both evil and charming.
If you spend 30 seconds with a stranger, you’ll want to curb their evil and unleash their magic.
