There are phrases that fake people use to impress you. These words can sound incredibly real, so it’s important to recognize some of these phrases for your own protection.
I know there are fake people all over the world, but I live in the southern United States, where people are especially good at charming others. The phrases the fake people here use are so catchy you’d swear southerners in the US are the nicest people. And yes, there are some nice ones, but maybe not the ones you think.
As I said, there are fake people everywhere, people who use all kinds of phrases to get what they want.
Some phrases used by fake people
Here’s the trick. You should listen carefully to the words that come out of people’s mouths. Watch their body language and smile. Over time, you will be able to distinguish between a real person and a facade. Phrases used by fake people come in many forms, so here are some examples:
- “Bless your heart”
I’m just going to go ahead and kick this out. “Bless your heart,” especially coming from the mouth of a Southern American, is laced with sarcasm. Now, some try to offer you warm blessings, but most of them are…meh, it’s questionable.
This phrase is sometimes used to cover up the deep resentment and disgust felt by the fake person. I know this is a bit harsh, but trust me, I’ve been on the receiving end of this phrase many times. It’s like they’re taking care of you.
- “I like the way you think”
I think this is funny. The fact of the matter is that there’s a good chance they don’t like the way you think. They’re passive-aggressive, frankly. Because most people who like the way your mind works wouldn’t say it that way. It’s just a vague phrase that makes you feel confused. - “I hate drama.”
Usually, when someone says they hate drama, they are the first to cause drama. And they know this. They know that they might be the reason behind any dramatic event that happens, and they just try to absolve themselves of responsibility.
You’ll see a clear connection between their role in certain events and their reckless use of the phrase.
- “I was just kidding”
I have encountered the false use of this phrase for many years. Yes, we can all joke with our friends and make fun of them. But here’s the thing: fake people also use this phrase to soften up their past offensive remarks.
For example, let’s say your “friend” insulted you. Well, as soon as they see that they offended you, they will start declaring that it was a joke. guess what? It wasn’t a joke, and they meant every word.
- “I strive to put others before myself.”
If you have to say that to someone, you’re probably not really putting others before yourself. In fact, you are declaring that you are doing this “good deed,” perhaps for the sake of attention.
So, in fact, you strive to put yourself first by talking a lot about how you help people and doing selfless things. It reminds me of those people who help others and take pictures every time they do it. Does this sound familiar?
- “Awesome! this is funy”
This statement can be used by honest people, and fake people can use it too. It’s normal to find other people interesting, and I understand that. But, often when someone says, “That’s interesting” when you’re talking, they just want you to shut up.
They may not find what you’re talking about interesting and may not ask you any follow-up questions either. They may be trying to be nice, but they have no interest in conversation. Either way, they are fake.
- “It’s great to see you.”
At first, this seems really nice, right? Some of the phrases fake people use can be identical to what a caring person would say. Therefore, it is always important to look at the statement in the context of the rest of the conversation or situation.
The fake person will say this but fail to continue the interesting conversation. In this case, they will not be happy to see you. They couldn’t care less. It’s as if they are a robot that has been programmed to give you a general greeting.
- “We should hang out sometime.”
If you see someone you know in a public place saying this, know that it may not be true. It’s one of the typical phrases fake people use.
Fake people will act like they want to spend time with you, but in reality they are putting on a show for everyone. Chances are, and chances are good, they’ll never get back in touch with you until you see them in public again.
