The time has come, and you can’t take it anymore.

The peace of your home has been disturbed since the narcissist entered it, and now you want it back.

Is it as simple as asking them to leave?

Would they accept that kind of hint?

What do you think?!

I’m not going to lie—it’s going to be a mission. Once it’s done, you’ll be able to breathe again.

Let’s take a look at 7 ways to get a narcissist out of your home—for good!

Can’t Take It Anymore…

You’ve tried and tried all your life, but it’s time to change something.

You want to be alone. You dream of being alone. So what do you do?

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Home should be a haven of peace and tranquility, and if it isn’t, you know something has to change.

Narcissists make their presence felt when they enter your environment, either with their charm or with a toxic, destructive impulse.

So, if this is happening under your roof, you should feel safe and reassured. It’s time to make a change for the better—a permanent change.

Ditch the Narcissist Now!

1 You Have to Expose Them

My first piece of advice is to make sure you expose the narcissist.

I don’t promise it’ll be fun, but certain things are necessary if you want this evolution to happen.

Sometimes, evolution involves making major commitments to each other, and other times, it involves breaking those commitments.

Exposing them as narcissists simply means telling them that nothing they do will get past you.

You’ve understood who they are, what their game is, and how toxic and destructive they are as people.

So where does that leave you? You can’t live under the same roof; the dynamics won’t work, so the narcissist will leave very quickly.

2 Silence

It may be awkward at best, but silence will relieve the narcissist’s discomfort.

This is especially helpful when you stop reacting to how they try to drag you into conflict.

After crying, screaming, shaking, and trembling in their face because of what they said, did, or accused you of, now you do nothing.

This will deepen the narcissist’s discomfort, making it harder for them to find someone useful to you.

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Do you know what that means?

It means they’ll leave and be done with it. After all, what’s the point in staying?

3 Make it hard for them to get your help

How have you been giving yourself up?

Have you ever:

Get pulled into arguments?
Believed them when they told you how ugly/fat/useless you were?
Given yourself up?
Left your own version of reality to fit into theirs?
Appealed to their mistreatment of others?
Defended them when they needed you?
Loyally obeyed them?
Remained silent about their abuse?
Made them feel jealous when they instilled it in you?

No matter how much you provide for yourself, if it stops, you’ll never find a happy or content narcissist living under your roof.

The only way they can find happiness again is to walk away and look elsewhere for that vital chain.

Cut off your connection with them, and you won’t be able to feed them.

Oh, what fun!

4 Start Standing Up

No one’s going to do it for you, so you have to do it yourself.

Sometimes I think that might be the problem. We want to wait for someone to save us, but it never happens.

Everyone is busy with their own business, and sometimes you have to do the right thing.

So what’s the right thing to do in this situation?

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Standing up for yourself shows that you value yourself. You want to protect what they’ve worked so hard to break all this time under your roof.

They won’t appreciate you changing and growing into a more assertive person, which is why you often see them leave so quickly.

The dynamics they’re creating are no longer working, so the only wise option is to leave.

5 Don’t settle for what worked before

The status quo has to go!

I know you all know what that means, but applying it to reality is another matter entirely.

No matter how long you’ve been together, the puzzle has fitted together in a certain way, hasn’t it?

Your place is there, the narcissist’s place is there, and everyone around you fits in there.

That’s exactly what the narcissist wants.

But you know what? You take the puzzle and tear it apart, and suddenly the narcissist has nowhere to go, nowhere to look.

They don’t even know what to do first, but one thing is for sure.

They won’t want to stay.

6 Admit It’s Not Working

Raise your hands and say, “You know what? It’s not working for me anymore.

I don’t want to be in this, or work at it, while it’s not bringing me any good or love. I’ve had enough, and I want to change.”

Your admission will initially send the narcissist into a panic. What will they do now?

It’s clear at this point that you won’t be offering them any additional support, so waiting for them will be pointless.

It takes a strong mind to admit that the abusive dynamic you’ve been forced to live with is no longer working.

But when will you do that, man? Your world will change for the better immeasurably.

7 Start Living Your Life

Does anyone feel held back by the narcissist they know and live with? Think about who you were when you first met them, compared to who you are now.

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Do you feel like a shadow of yourself, or a blank slate?

That’s what they do. They make sure you’re empty, without fun or hobbies to enjoy.

The moment you start to reclaim your life is the moment they realize they’ve lost you.

All the abuse you’ve endured up until this point is now buried in your past as you begin to rebuild your life and identity.

All the qualities and characteristics they took from you.

They were always yours, and reclaiming them will get the narcissist out the door forever.