The best part about watching a narcissist collapse in on themselves is just sitting back and waiting for that glorious moment.
And it does come, folks. It’s not as immediate as you’d hope, but the wait is worth it.
Eventually, they reveal themselves. They reveal their true colors just as you’re thinking about giving up.
If you needed proof that their blood is pure narcissism, what you’re about to read is exactly that.
Here are 7 Ways Narcissists Reveal Themselves.
Can’t Explain
It’s a great day when a narcissist acts in a way that reinforces your thoughts about them, isn’t it?
It’s like you’ve been waiting your whole life for this moment, and finally, it’s here.
Narcissists aren’t smart, you know. They have a habit of shaming themselves when they think they’re at their most stable.
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But how they act, what they do, what they say? Well, they can’t explain it any more.
It’s like they’re wearing “I’m a Narcissist” T-shirts.
1 They Accuse You of What They Do
Projection is one of the most horrific ways to abuse others. Not only do narcissists act and behave, but they also have the audacity to accuse you of what they did.
In other words, they want to do whatever they want and get away with it.
So, no matter what, you’re the one who never wins.
It’s incredibly painful for someone who’s done nothing wrong to suddenly be the one at fault, but there is light at the end of the tunnel.
When a narcissist makes their ambitions known, you have to see it for what it is—narcissism.
Believing their word means you’re falling into the trap they’ve set for you.
I urge you to walk away.
2 They Randomly Brag About How “Good” They Are
Oh my God! As if we need to sing the narcissist’s “I’m So Perfect” song again. It’s already the most frequently repeated song in your head because they sing it to you so often, isn’t it?
Listen to me for a minute—I believe it’s okay to boast and exaggerate from time to time. We achieve, we accomplish, and we deserve recognition for that.
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But no. Narcissists are drowning in a constant stream of vanity, and that’s not attractive.
Bragging is a sure sign that you’re in a relationship with someone who thinks more of themselves than anything else.
Or, as I like to call it, a red flag.
Don’t let any of these slip by.
3 They Reveal Their Need for Control in Jokes or Ridicule
Every joke gets you, right?
And just when you think you can escape, the sarcastic comments that pin you down in public or behind closed doors follow.
Narcissists always feel compelled to outdo you, and they don’t care what you mean to them or your relationship with them.
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You don’t need to be the butt of anyone’s jokes, and you certainly don’t need to base your life on someone who doesn’t care about your feelings or thoughts.
Look at what’s being presented here—because none of it is good for you.
4 They Slip Up When Talking About Their Exes
The biggest warning sign you can find in a person is when they completely trash any partner they’ve dated.
She was the worst person in the world.
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I hated her so much; she never did anything and was so lazy.
Don’t get me wrong, honest people can have these thoughts about their exes—they are their exes, after all.
This is different. This is deep, this is persistent, and this is really hurtful. All of these statements are meant to send you into a spiral of sympathy for them.
God, this sounds awful.
How did you handle it?
You’re so much better than that!
I promise I’ll never treat you that way again.
You’re already in agreement with yourself, see? You’re giving the narcissist permission to control you and hold you accountable in a narcissistic court of law if you start exhibiting similar behaviors.
They’re setting you up for a long-term trap, but the short version is that you need to see the red flag whenever a conversation like this arises.
5 They compliment you too early, and too much
That’s a bit much, isn’t it?
I mean, it might not be for you. You might love this attention and affection because it’s something you’ve wanted your whole life and haven’t received.
I think this is where a lot of the problems come to light—the narcissist takes your vulnerabilities and exaggerates them. They want you to feel special, loved, and cared for.
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But it’s a bit much.
Actually, it is a bit much, but for you, it’s the best thing in the world—until they change. Until that mask falls off and you realize how toxic the game the narcissist is playing is.
Compliment comes in many forms, but the most common are:
Sending you flowers at work
Showing up during your lunch break
Constantly calling or texting
Overly commenting on every social media post you post
Inviting you on lavish, over-the-top dates
Telling you they love you after a short time together
Constantly telling you how beautiful you are, even if it derails the conversation
A lot, and it’s a clear sign of someone with an addictive personality.
6 They talk about how jealous everyone is of them
All the time. This person, that person, even complete strangers.
Are they right? You know, maybe someone somewhere is jealous, but not as much as they assume.
What they assume is that everyone admires narcissists, and that’s just an overblown ideology.
Normal people, like you and me, right? Just an overdose of bullshit being heaped on them.
That’s the only difference between a narcissist and us. This nonsense is a toxic cocktail that we all know can destroy people’s lives and self-esteem, and this is exactly how they reveal themselves.
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No one is jealous—calm down and stop pretending you’re the best. We know you’re not.
7 They Can’t Stand Being Ignored—Even for a Short Time
If you allow yourself to be ignored by a narcissist, I know they’ll eventually go crazy.
The hell you put them through when you don’t give them the attention they want is painful, but that attention, again, is unbearable.
They want it all the time, and they want a lot of it.
Why?
Actually—they need it.
They can’t go off the hook for long, and because they’re unable to make themselves happy, their dependence on you is exaggerated.
Yes—it drains their energy—but this is a clear sign you’re dealing with a narcissist, and again, it’s how they reveal themselves.
