There are certain personality types that everyone hates and tries to avoid. Sometimes you stumble upon them in your class, at work, or even in your family. In this case, the only thing you can do is reduce the influence of certain personality types on you and your daily life. When it comes to the people we’re not stuck with, we have more freedom, and one crucial ability – to get rid of them. After you know that the guy you are dating is one of these personalities, you should avoid him like the plague! To help you recognize, here are the seven most common types of toxic personality:
- The overconfident person
Every girl likes her man to be confident, but if you are not a really negative person who doesn’t mind making all your decisions for you and agree to go with the flow, then an overconfident guy is not for you. His masculine attitude and loud voice will make you spot him even before you get to know him. Save yourself the trouble – stay away from this guy.
- The chronic complainer
This man is an expert at picking out the bad things in everything, and of course complaining about them. You will notice him immediately, because he will never seem satisfied unless he has something to criticize or oppose. Beware, because this guy is only looking for people he can complain to, and if you’re not that type, he’ll try to make you. Don’t allow it to transfer its toxicity to you and get rid of it as soon as possible. - Control freak
Usually, people who want to be in control of everything never realize that they don’t have control over their lives to begin with. They have to deal with depression, anxiety, and stress-related issues, because they focus too much on things they can’t control. If you are a strong and independent woman, you will definitely not allow him to have complete control over you, and this will drive him crazy. You don’t have to spend the entire date apologizing for the five minutes you were late, so what you need to do is pretty clear.
- The eternal victim
He always blames others for his problems and never takes responsibility for his actions. Everyone loves ambitious people who, after failing, get up and try again. This guy will only get up and complain that it wasn’t his fault and that only more successful people have opportunities and advantages that he doesn’t. While dating this guy, you will quickly get frustrated and may start to have the same doubts and negative energy that he does. Prevent this from happening; This is not the man for you. - The insecure person
You can’t blame someone for feeling insecure. Maybe it’s because of a series of bad events in his life, or he’s going through a hard time right now. It’s good to help him sort himself out but you need to think twice if it’s worth it. It’s very likely not to happen because he will leave you emotionally drained, with his never-ending demands and constant clinging. It’s risky, so my best advice is to stay away from a guy like this.
- Aggressive
You don’t need to hear a lot of reasons why dating this guy isn’t good. His temperament can be hidden at times, so you will have to watch him closely for details to see if he will flip out at the slightest provocation. If you notice signs that it breaks easily, save yourself the trouble; Don’t date him. - Selfish
If you’re not ready to listen to him brag about his wealth, his successful career, his past conquests, or his flashy new car, avoid this genre. The worst part is that he doesn’t even realize that his arrogant attitude is a turnoff to most women. We’ve all encountered people like this, and rolled our eyes every time they started their endless conversations about whatever it was that fed their ego. You won’t get a chance to talk when you’re around him and this is a clear sign for you to stay away from him.
