Most women don’t really know that they are stuck in toxic relationships. They think that their partner is behaving badly towards them because of some crisis they are experiencing and that they will get back on track again. But unfortunately this never happens. When you meet a toxic man, he will act charming and be the best friend in the world. He will make you believe that he is everything you need and that you cannot find a better match. The point is that every toxic man is a big player and knows how to trick a girl into falling in love with him.
But once the door closes and they start living together as a couple, the real pain begins. All the way from ridicule, belittlement, belittlement and lying to more serious things like domestic and emotional violence. And do you know what’s the worst thing? Every woman stuck in a relationship like this thinks everything is her fault. It’s not hard to think this way when you’re convinced that you’re unworthy and incapable of doing big things.
There are some common habits that all women stuck in toxic relationships have, so I suggest you read more and learn more about them.
- They cry more than usual
Women stuck in toxic relationships need some way to vent their anger. That’s why most of them cry when no one sees them. It can happen while they are washing the dishes, driving home from work, or taking a shower. This is their way of letting all the toxins out and feeling better, if only for a moment. They don’t want anyone to know about it, so they always cry without anyone watching them. In fact, they’re so ashamed of their relationship that the last thing they want to explain is all those tears streaming down their faces. - They lie to everyone that they have healthy relationships
I know you don’t want to explain to people why you have problems in your marriage, but if you try to make them believe something you don’t believe, they will soon realize that you are lying. Also, if people ask you if everything is okay between you and your partner, this is a sign that they felt like something was wrong. They’re probably asking you for more details because they’re trying to help you, but there are also people who will act like your friends when in reality, they’re nothing more than bad people who like to poke their noses into other people’s lives.
- They do not contact their families and friends
When you are stuck in a toxic relationship, it is very difficult to maintain the same connection with your family and friends. That’s why most women who are in this type of relationship lose contact with their friends and family, and always find excuses not to be at family gatherings or some parties. The truth is that they really want to socialize but their toxic partners don’t allow it. These toxic partners want to isolate their women so they can easily control them. They tell their victims a lot of lies about love and respect, and these women feel remorse for not spending time with their partners, so they try to be with them as much as possible. - They think about leaving their partners
When you’re stuck in a toxic relationship, you want to escape as quickly as possible. That’s why all these women are thinking about leaving their partners and finding the peace they deserve. But the bad thing is that most of them do not have enough courage to do it because they were convinced that they would not be able to succeed on their own. They believe that once they leave their toxic man, they will not be able to have a good life because of their high level of addiction to him. The thing that can make them change their mind is severe domestic or emotional violence where they have to run away to save their naked lives. - They feel that they are guilty of everything bad that happens to them
The main problem in toxic relationships is that the abusive partner convinces their victim that they are guilty of everything bad that happened to them. Regardless of whether he hits her or hurts her in any way, he will say she made him do it. He would do anything to make her feel bad about herself, thinking she deserved all the bad things that happened to her. This kind of gaslighting is what most women in toxic relationships go through and it takes a lot of time and courage to free themselves from such men.
- They don’t remember the last time they smiled
Since women stuck in this type of relationship feel sad, it is very difficult for them to find some happiness and smile about the things that others smile about every day. They have been beaten to emotional death, and they do not have the minimum amount of energy to regain their old lives. What they constantly think about are ways to escape from a relationship like this and save themselves from a miserable life. If there is someone who can provide them with some support, it will be easier for them to achieve their goals. But if left alone, it is very difficult to find the right path to a happy life. - They make excuses for their abusive partners
Even if some of their friends saw that they were being abused by their partners, they would not admit it. The main reason for this is shame – they simply cannot accept the fact that they live a life like this even if they dream of something different. That’s why they will always tell their friends that things seem worse than they really are, and that they don’t need to worry about them. It may look good on the outside, but it’s falling apart on the inside. They simply do not understand that people are not blind and that it is only a matter of time when the true truth will be revealed.
