Emotional use doesn’t sound nice at all. You’ve found yourself completely falling for a man and he doesn’t even show any signs of affection or love.
So, you will end up confused because you don’t know whether you should keep trying to win him over or you should drop everything.
These signs are very difficult to see, especially at the beginning of a relationship, but if you want to know more about them, keep reading.
- He does not talk about the future
If your man never talks about his future plans with you, he’s probably taking advantage of you emotionally.
He feels good to be with you now but he has no plans to marry you or have children with you.
What you should do is ask him directly about his plans for you, because you don’t plan on waiting for him to get his affairs in order.
If he refuses to talk to you about the future, this is a sure sign that he is using you and you should not waste your time with him anymore.
- Not affectionate
When was the last time he hugged you and told you he loved you? When was the last time he made you feel special? I know you can’t even remember, right?
A man like this is only with you because he feels good about it but he doesn’t plan to devote himself completely to you.
Instead, he will only use you because you are good at some things but not good enough for him to marry you.
If you don’t feel satisfied and wanted in this type of relationship, you shouldn’t even try to make things better.
If he can’t do anything about it, you don’t have to worry about that either.
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- He only calls you when he needs you
If you have this constant feeling that your man only calls you when he needs you, you should think twice about whether he is the man you want to spend the rest of your life with.
If he can’t support you when you need it most, he definitely doesn’t deserve you.
- He talks about other girls
A man like this is only using you emotionally and will never be a man you can be happy with.
He only takes care of his own needs and will never provide you with the love you truly deserve. So, the sooner you leave him, the better for you.
When you’re with him he always talks about the other girls, how successful and beautiful they are.
So you stand there and feel bad because the guy you love so much talks about other girls with admiration and he never talks about you that way.
Such behavior is simply insulting and you should not put up with anything that makes you feel bad.
I’m not saying he shouldn’t talk about other girls but if you feel bad about his words then he should stop.
He should know that you are his priority and his girlfriend and that he must pull himself together if he wants to keep you in his life.
- It’s not romantic at all
Do you remember the last time your man did something romantic for you? I didn’t think so.
I’m not saying he should give you surprises every day but you deserve some appreciation on your birthday or Valentine’s Day for example.
If he doesn’t even remember your birthday and doesn’t make any effort to make you feel special, you should ask yourself what you’re doing with someone like that.
If you want a boyfriend who will cherish and respect you the way you truly deserve, I suggest you leave him and start focusing on yourself. Trust me, you will never be happy with a man like that.
- He doesn’t have any deep conversations with you
If your man acts like you are just there to fulfill his desires and never talks seriously to you, you should be worried because this is a sure sign that he is just using you.
Maybe he doesn’t feel anything for you and you’re just there to fill the void.
This is definitely not what one woman deserves. You should have a loving and caring partner who will show you that he loves you.
