When you’re at the beginning of a relationship, you always hope it will become something special.
But, unfortunately, this cannot be true when you meet the wrong person whose only goal is to lead you.
This guy won’t be honest enough with you to tell you that he doesn’t want anything serious from the beginning.
Instead, he will try to keep you around for as long as he needs you, without fully committing to you.
If you’re in a situation where you can’t be sure of a man’s intentions toward you, here are 6 signs he’s leading you on.
He doesn’t want to name things
One of the first signs that a guy is just leading you on and isn’t planning on having anything serious with you is that he doesn’t want to put a label on your relationship.
You keep telling yourself that labeling things doesn’t have to mean anything and that there are other more important things between a couple but deep down, you want him to commit.
You want exclusivity because you’re only dating him but you’re not sure if he’s doing the same or not and that makes you feel insecure.
He doesn’t talk about the future
When a man takes you seriously, he has serious future plans that include you.
But when a man leads you forward, he will never talk to you about the future. At the same time, he will never be honest and will never tell you not to get your hopes up.
Instead, he will be vague, telling you that time will tell and that he doesn’t want to rush things.
He’s just doing this to keep you around, and he doesn’t plan on staying with you much longer. But he knows he can’t tell you this because he will kick you out forever.
He’s not interested in you
One sign that a man doesn’t want anything serious with you is his lack of interest in your life.
You clearly see that he does not listen to you when you talk and that he does not take you seriously.
This guy is uncomfortable around your friends and family and doesn’t know basic details about you.
It’s time to stop justifying him, by telling yourself that he’s just being reckless and that it’s every man’s nature to be uninterested.
But please don’t let him fool you, when a man truly loves you, he will make an effort to remember every little detail about you.
He doesn’t let you into his life
Not only does this man not want to be a part of your life, he doesn’t include you in his life either.
He never talks about things that interest him, you know almost nothing about his work and he never asks you to spend time with his group of friends.
As a matter of fact, he never introduces you to anyone important to him, and you’re starting to wonder if anyone in his life even knows you exist.
This clearly shows that this man does not think your relationship is important enough to allow you to become a part of his life.
He makes excuses
When a man leads you on, he doesn’t love you enough and never will, but he doesn’t want you to know that.
He wants you to stay addicted to him, so he will do everything in his power to avoid any kind of responsibility for his behavior and will justify his actions.
This man will always make excuses for the way he treats you and it will never be his fault.
But before you start believing him, you have to remember that where there is a will, there is a way.
Plays mind games
When you get involved with a man who just wants to lead you on, he will play hot and cold mind games with you.
With him, you’ll never know where you stand and what he really feels about you.
He will never be honest with you and tell you that he doesn’t love you enough and that he doesn’t plan to be with you. Instead, it will ask you to wait for it and that it needs more time.
There will be days when he will give you his full attention, and then weeks will go by without him contacting you.
And in those periods when he can’t be found, when you feel like you’re about to get over him, he’ll come back into your life as if nothing had happened.
