If you have never been in a toxic relationship, you won’t think about it much but the truth is that there are a lot of people living in relationships like this and despite the fact that they are not happy, they somehow chose to be a part of it.
Some of them are afraid of change and others are so addicted to their partner that they cannot imagine themselves with someone else. Everyone finds their reasons for staying in relationships like this, but when you sum it all up, you’ll see that they do you more harm than good.
I know that leaving the person you used to be is hard but if you think outside the box, you will see many opportunities waiting for you when you decide to close that chapter of your life.
If you still don’t believe me that you should get out of that toxic relationship, let me tell you a few things that will probably make you change your mind.
- You will get rid of your burdens
Once you end the toxic relationship, you will be free of the huge burden that has been on your shoulders for so long. It would be very nice to do what you want, not walk on eggshells, making your partner happy while making yourself sad.
It will mean a new beginning, new opportunities and a new outlook on life. Once you get out of a relationship like this, you will feel alive again and be able to live your life to the fullest.
- You will not feel afraid
When you’re part of a toxic relationship, fear becomes a non-stop part of your life. You will always be afraid of hurting or upsetting your partner. You will do things that you don’t really want to do but you don’t want to disappoint him.
You will always put yourself second because he is first and he wouldn’t be with you if that wasn’t the case. You will feel like you are always on the verge of losing your mind and you will need to try to find some energy because you feel drained from it every day.
But once you cut him out of your life, all this will become an ugly past.
So what are you waiting for? Come on, you know you deserve better.
- You will be able to start a new chapter of your life
Once you end a toxic relationship, you will be able to do the things you always wanted to do but your partner prevented you from doing.
There will be no one to tell you that you shouldn’t do this or that and you will feel free like you have never felt before. You will finally make all the decisions on your own and not have to ask anyone for permission.
When you make that final decision and when you get out of your toxic relationship, you will finally see what true happiness is. You will become more positive and finally satisfied with your life.
- You can find happiness elsewhere
I know exactly how you feel right now. I know that you are afraid of change and that you think that you will never find someone who will love you.
You think you’re not good enough or worthy enough. You think that your partner is the only one who can love you, and even if he treats you badly sometimes, you close your eyes and pray that it will end soon.
You’re afraid to move forward on your own, which is why you settle for less than you deserve. But trust me, if you gather a little courage, you will see how your life can change.
You’ll be mad at yourself for not moving away sooner, and you’ll see the beauty of being single after all this time.
- You will become the best version of yourself
When you end a toxic relationship, you will see the change you have longed for so much.
You will see that you feel better, so you can finally do things you never did before, an
You will be proud of yourself for finally letting go of something that wasn’t real. You will turn into a better person, someone who has been through hell but still stands on his feet.
And when you do everything you’ve always wanted to do, it’s the best feeling in the world.
- You deserve someone who accepts you for who you are
If you are not happy with someone, if you cannot be yourself, it is a sign that you have to change something.
I know it’s easier to stay with someone than to leave but in a toxic relationship, leaving is the only smart thing to do. You don’t want to be stuck with a man who doesn’t cherish you or accept you for who you are. You deserve a better man and you won’t find him if you don’t let the wrong man go.
