I hear a lot of dating stories, especially from guys, where they say they fell in love with someone and months or even years later, they found out they were dating someone completely crazy.
They were deceived.
Their accomplice pretended to be some way to catch them and then revealed his true personality; A heartless, narcissistic bitch, and now they’re stuck there asking themselves, “Who the hell are you and what have I gotten myself into?”
You want to be sympathetic to these people because they are blinded by love, but I don’t feel bad for them.
I just think they didn’t care.
Whether you’ve been together for a few months or years, things happen in people’s lives that will show you their personality.
They will shine or reveal their true selves.
When these examples appear, they will show you her integrity, authenticity, and commitment elsewhere in her life. All you have to do is pay attention, and I’m here to help you do that.
Pay attention to the way your partner acts in these types of situations and you will never be cheated on again.
So, here are 5 instances when a person’s personality reveals itself:
- How do they treat their families and friends?
How do they appear in front of their family or friends? Are they supportive? Are they giving and helping?
Do they spend time with them? When they are sick, do they take care of them and check to make sure they are okay? Are they good? I
If they treat their family and friends poorly or without compassion during their time of need, they will likely eventually do the same to you.
- How do they talk about their ex?
Are they spiteful? Are they still angry?
Do they only have bad things to say? This might be how they talk about you one day.
Was the demise of their previous relationship solely the other person’s fault?
Pay close attention to the answers.
- What kind of parents are they?
If you’re dating someone with kids, the type of parent they are is a huge indicator of who they are as a person.
Are they showing up for their children? Are they an active parent?
Are their children the most important thing in their lives?
Do they offer it?
If their children don’t come first, how will you approach getting what you need?
- How do they argue?
