Time has been kind to me. It’s allowed me to meet many people who have gone through a difficult time with a narcissist.

While I’ve helped them through it, I’ve learned what really bothers them so much that it’s possible to destroy them.

I’m not one to promote the idea that destroying others is a way of life, but I also want to support you.

The only way to do that is to activate that angry narcissist!

Here’s how.

Make The Impossible Possible!

You know this is something you’ve always wanted to do, right? It seems impossible to upset them.

No matter what you do, you might give them a reason to be upset. But what about the real frustration?

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Ripping them off and destroying them is crossing the line that usually stops you because fear holds you back. What if you did it anyway?

Make The Impossible Possible!

1 Smile

I bet you thought this list was full of horrible things, didn’t you?

You’re not a horrible person, and neither am I! But believe it or not, none of what I’m suggesting here is evil. That’s not the point.

You’re staying in tune with your true self, and I want to respect that as much as I admire it.

So smile.

Make their day much worse just by being happy.

2 Laugh

Laughter is another thing, and I’m a big fan of it.

If someone is clearly trying to annoy you, you can’t help but suggest that you ruined that attempt by laughing.

Watching you enjoy yourself without caring will immediately anger them.

3 Ignore Them

Why not? They do, right?

The difference is, you’re not doing it to annoy them; you’re done with them. You don’t want to talk, fight, or engage.

So you ignore it.

And your silence is what will cut off their supply.

Ugh!

4 Challenge Their Demands

What are they asking of you now?

Don’t you wish they’d stop?

Giving in to what the narcissist demands of you is giving them a better life while you suffer and struggle.

You don’t want that, so your only option is to defy them.

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Don’t give in to their commands, and you’ll free yourself while also angering them.

5 Learn What They’re Withholding From You

What are these things? Why have they been able to hold you back until this point?

All the time you’re being denied the things you love, they get what they want. They see your doom.

When you free yourself from that with knowledge and awareness, you’ll anger them.

When you’re unstoppable, they’ll have nowhere to go.

6 Leave Them

Just do it.

Stop putting up with their bullshit and leave.

If it’s not safe or easy, make a plan to make it happen in due course.

Whatever you do, remember that this is the end, and you’re leaving.

Nothing angers them more than knowing you and your allies have left.

7 Expose Them

Show them the truth directly, and tell those you know and trust the truth.

Who are they, and what are they doing to you?

Expose the narcissist to the narcissist—it’s more fun! Yes, you’ll piss them off, but if that’s your goal, you’ll succeed!

8 Live Well

The best revenge is success, and the narcissist will be furious to see you making good choices for yourself and living the life you’ve always dreamed of.

9 Set Boundaries

Although it hurts them, your boundaries are yours alone. They’re meant to protect you emotionally and even physically.

They’re your boundaries, and any transgression is a violation.

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Keeping them strong is your way of asserting yourself and keeping them completely upset.

This won’t just ruin their day, it’ll ruin them too!

10 Don’t Retaliate

A bite here, a crumb there, an excuse there.

Don’t do it.

Keep it away from them and save your energy.

They will surround you, waiting for that opportunity, but you are not a fish, and they are not the line. Remember your worth.

11 Act on Their Threats

Listen. If you are threatened and it becomes serious, keep all the evidence you have and present it to the police.

Don’t tolerate threats, and never let the narcissist assume you will remain silent forever.

It is possible to admit all your suffering and believe.

The narcissist will be furious when he realizes he can’t keep it a secret anymore.

12 Never Let Them See You Cry

They enjoy seeing your struggles and attempts to control your tears.

So why give them what they want?

If you must, go to another room and cry. Do it in the bathroom, the bathtub, or in bed at night.

But never let them see you.

They’ll feel like they’re losing their power, and nothing will upset them more.

13 Let It Go

One step beyond leaving the narcissist is moving on with someone else.

Don’t do this in a hurry. The last thing you want is to be disappointed. Instead, find someone who cares about you and is willing to move on through it with respect and compromise.

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This is the ultimate in narcissism and will destroy them completely.

14 Embarrass Them

A narcissist will never want to be embarrassed. Beneath their arrogance lies a very fragile selfishness. Selfishness is easily destroyed, especially if it draws negative or embarrassing attention to them.

They’ll never forgive you—that’s okay!

15 Follow Your Dreams

Because they’re your dreams and because you have every right to!

Narcissists will stop you from achieving your goals and dreams if they get the chance.

This doesn’t mean you have to listen and obey. They don’t have the right to do whatever they want—it’s your life—and you only have one!

So, piss them off and show them you’re not someone to be manipulated!

16 You Don’t “Need” Them

When you need someone, that feeling turns into an attachment that’s hard to shake. Ask yourself what exactly you need from a narcissist, and is that healthy?

I’m guessing it’s not. I’m betting it’s a sense of desire amidst a sea of ​​neglect.

There’s no need to sail that sea!