The universe is wiser than all of us combined, which is why the signs it sends should mean we stand up and pay attention to what’s really going on.

And if we’re hesitant about a person or situation? Well, you can bet the universe will show you the right way…

…just like a narcissist living at work would show you.

If you’re dealing with a narcissist, here are 10 signs from the universe you can pay attention to – so it’s time to get wise and match the energy around you!

Unable To Ignore

There are signs out there every day for us to pick up and notice.

When you’re dealing with a narcissist, it feels like there’s no way to escape the toxic way they can crush and humiliate you.

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The universe is bigger than all of that, and you’ll soon be unable to ignore the signs it sends you to let you know that there’s a narcissist in your life who’s determined to make your life miserable.

10 Signs From The Universe That You’re Dealing With A Narcissist

1 Loss of Trust

If you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, there will come a day when you wake up and realize that there’s no trust.

Discovering the remnants of what once felt like the perfect love can be devastating. You see them for what they are, and you know that no matter how much you try or pray for that trust to return – it won’t.

You need to understand that love doesn’t mean ignoring every toxic aspect of your union just to stay with that person. Love means finding someone who respects you, and would never dream of hurting you.

Trust is so hard to earn, and so easy to break, but what it does to you – the victim – stays with you forever.

You’ll take that lack of trust with you into any future relationships, and you’ll always expect or experience the same thing.

The universe can be calling you to pay attention to any trust issues as if it were waving the biggest red flag imaginable.

2 You Feel Like You’re In A Constant State Of Danger

Nothing seems stable anymore, does it?

I know this is a sign because I hear it from clients a lot.

I don’t seem to feel safe or happy.

I feel like everything I don’t want to happen is happening.

Of course you do. That’s because your emotions are swaying like a rubber ball.

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Your heart has been put in a ping pong machine, and you’re watching it get pushed and pulled while all you want to do is feel at peace.

The stillness is leaving your relationship, making you want to curl up and cry.

What’s going to go wrong today?

How can I fix yesterday’s conflict?

None of this is up to you to fix, because none of it was created by you.

3 A Feeling You Can’t Get Rid Of

Intuition is something we rarely tap into these days. We’re so busy being triggered by tangible things:

Phones.

Sounds.

Smells.

Tastes.

Lights.

Distractions!

What’s really going on? What’s causing this anxiety? What creates this heaviness in your gut?

It’s a feeling you can’t shake, but the universe is bringing it to you in hundreds of little ways every day.

It comes from having to deal with a narcissist, but it also comes from all the little excuses you make for them. Maybe you’re programmed to do this, or maybe you’re hoping that one day it will change.

I’ll make you a promise right now that it will never change.

4 Peace? What peace?

There is no peace when it comes to narcissists, and you will feel this the more time you spend with them.

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When you feel like you want to explode, and your days are filled with drama and negativity, the universe will send you opportunities to receive what you are feeling in the hope that you can make a change and do something about it.

5 Solitude

Sometimes solitude can give you space to reflect and evaluate what is going on in your life.

Why does it seem like there are hardly any people around you? When was the last time you saw your friends? Do you have any friends?

Isolation is common, and narcissists will look for any opportunity to make you feel even more alone.

If you feel disconnected, you need to look outside of yourself, and toward the narcissist for answers. They are the ones causing it, not you.

6 You’ve Lost Yourself

All victims of narcissistic abuse are taken to a place they don’t recognize or know themselves. The narcissist wants them to stay there, so they rot and wither away in a hollow shell of who they once were.

For you, the victim, it feels like parts of you are slowly slipping away, and over time, you understand yourself less and less.

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The universe is great at guiding you in the direction of who you were meant to be; where your true purpose lies.

While toxic people and situations are leading you away, you will feel this innate pull back to your true self.

7 You’re Living in a Tangled Web of Deception

It’s all around you, and you find yourself caught in it, like a fly in a real net.

You’re living among the lies the narcissist tells, and others believe. You’re part of the problem, but you’re not the cause. No one wants this, and no one deserves it either.

The lies to you, or about you, are what’s making you feel worthless creep in…

…and you know it’s not true.

8 Do you feel the need to heal?

For victims, they can wake up and feel a real need to heal. They want to grow and leave the situation they’re in.

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When you see a narcissist for who they are, you can’t ignore them—ever.

Do you understand how important that is?

The universe is constantly giving you signs to heal.

9 Release is always just a step away

Release is always just out of your reach, until it becomes something you can grab onto with both hands.

When the universe sends you this kind of message, it’s usually because the narcissist has pushed you to your limits. You can finally see life without them, and it’s no longer scary.

Instead, it feels amazing.

10 Relationships Feel Heavy

All relationships have their issues, but none of them should feel heavy and negative all the time.

If that happens, it’s a sign from the universe that you’re not living in a way that makes you happy, and you need to do something about it.

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It’s only when you ignore these signs that they become bigger than you can handle. Over time, you’re really causing people’s mental and physical health to deteriorate.

Don’t let this happen to you!