10 Red Flag Signs That You Are Being Abused By A Narcissist

Life with a narcissist is not life. He’s alive. They are very evil and play mind games to lure their victim into their traps.

Every woman in love would rather believe the narcissist, thinking he loves her, than believe her family and friends. But what when things get complicated? How do you get out of that nightmare?

If you’re not entirely sure that your partner is abusing you, here are some red flags to watch out for. Maybe things are much worse than you think.

1. He is superior in your relationship

If your partner believes that he or she is the leader in your relationship and that your emotions and thoughts are not important, then you can be sure that you are dealing with a narcissist.

He wants his word to be final and you can’t decide on all those important things in your life. He thinks you are worth less and treats you poorly because of it.

If you see even a hint that he’s starting to act this way, leave it alone. You don’t deserve a man who will mistreat you and belittle you. You are unique and special just the way you are, so never settle for less than you deserve.

See also: The Narcissist’s Playbook: How Narcissists Cause Arguments

2. He ignores you

Have you ever seen your man playing with his phone while you were telling him about your bad day at work? If yes, then you can be sure that you are dealing with a narcissist.

He simply doesn’t care about your needs and emotions. He just lost interest in you and wants you to find out in an ugly way. Whatever you do, don’t accept that what he’s doing is normal.

A real man who truly loves his woman would never treat her that way.

3. You feel worthless

If you are part of a toxic relationship, you will know it by your partner’s behavior. Every narcissist will mistreat you and will not care about your feelings. If you feel worthless in a relationship like this, then you should leave.

Don’t suffer while you’re in love, because love isn’t about that. Love is the purest and most beautiful thing in the world and you shouldn’t feel that way. Otherwise, it makes no sense.

4. You cry daily

When you live with a narcissistic man, every day will be sad. They will make excuses for what they are doing and you will end up crying. They simply live to make your life painful and you will have no other choice but to cry your heart out.

But please stop and think for a moment. Is that a life worth living? Do you want to raise your children in the toxic relationship you are in now? I don’t think so.

So, before things get worse, pack your bags and leave. Once you’re gone, he’ll miss you but that doesn’t mean you’ll kiss him back.

5. You’re not the same person anymore

When you are under the control of a narcissistic man for a long time, you lose yourself. You forget what it means to be cheerful and how to laugh.

Every day you spend with him you spend constantly worrying that he will do you some harm. You don’t want to make him angry with your behavior, so do things he likes. And in all this chaos, when you look in the mirror, you don’t recognize yourself anymore.

There is no glow in your eyes, your skin is pale and your eyes are big and red from constant crying.

Remember, this situation is something you can’t let go of anymore, so if you still care about your dreams and your life, do yourself a favor and kick him out of your life.

See also: The Harsh Reality Of The Toxic Relationship Between A Narcissist And An Empath