I learned to escape into false shelters early in my first marriage. My first marriage taught me that I couldn’t trust God. After all, I prayed extensively for my ex-husband and nothing ever happened. He must be one of the…
Most people now realize that gaslighting someone is an attempt to disconnect them from a basic belief in themselves and their reality. In a real light situation, the assailant will often say things like, “Are you sure this is what…
High-level manipulators are not your average con artist or skilled player. They have some tricks up their sleeve that can fool even the most seasoned skeptic. And it’s not what you might expect or even be prepared for. Many of…
I’ve been asked a lot why I stayed if my ex was so terrible. The question always brings pain to my heart, because I wish I hadn’t. But looking back, the answer to this question is very complex. For several…
Manipulation is very different from influence, and it can be difficult to spot. Manipulators manipulate people into doing what they want, often hiding their true intentions. It’s a subtle game, and if you’re not careful, you may not even realize…
The father of every narcissist is, of course, Satan. He provides a perfect model of narcissistic behavior, starting with his fall from the sky. Just a preliminary look at his words and behavior sounds like the DSM definition of narcissism.…
When it comes to matters of the heart, it is crucial to be vigilant and aware of red flags that may indicate a narcissistic partner. Narcissistic individuals often have charming personalities that can easily charm and deceive others. However, behind…
When emotionally abusive behavior is confused with love, it is easy to misread the signals and remain stuck in a toxic relationship as a result. But how do you know that these “acts of love” are signs of emotional abuse?…
Whether the relationship is good, bad or ugly, the message is always the same: love is respect. However, in an abusive relationship, the line between love and respect is often blurred. When this happens, victims like me feel alone, confused,…
If you’ve ever encountered a humble manipulator, you know how subtle and confusing their tactics can be. Manipulators, in a classic move, often resort to some deceptive phrases that can make you doubt yourself. It’s a confusing experience for sure.…
