How To Make Your Wife Happy: 5 Things You Can Do Right Now


One of the main challenges a man faces in a relationship is how to make his woman happy. Sometimes, in marriages, finding the key to a happy wife may seem counterintuitive, but there are some heartfelt little things you can do to show your love for her that will undoubtedly put a smile on her face.

Are you looking for things that you can do right now to make your wife happy?

Did you find it so easy to make her happy but now, as the years go by, do you find it more difficult? Are you yearning to bring your relationship back to a place where you feel more connected and know that it feels loved?

Good for you! And you know, as a man, that action is the best way to get what you want.

If I can sum up in one word that thing that can make your wife happy, it is romantic. I know it’s a scary word but your fear of it is one of the reasons why you are where you are today.

How To Make Your Wife Happy: 5 Things You Can Do Right Now

Here Are 5 Romantic Things That You Can Do Right Now To Make Your Wife Happy.

So what kind of romantic am I talking about?

1 Tell Her She Looks Nice.

I’m sure you’re thinking now that you tell your wife that she looks cute all the time. But I want you to think about it. How often do you look at your wife? I mean look and notice the things that made you attracted to her in the first place? And when you do, do you pronounce what you see?

One of the things I know from marriage and my clients is that we women often feel invisible. We feel we take it for granted. We feel that our person no longer sees us the way they used to and this makes us feel unloved.

One of my clients lost weight over the summer and bought herself a killer dress for a party she and her husband were attending. She dressed carefully that night and was excited to see her husband’s face when he saw her. his reaction? Nada.

I would encourage you to take the time to look at your spouse, jot down what she is wearing, how she looks, and reconnect with the things you love about her.

I can promise you that if you mention one little thing about your wife’s appearance, it will make her happy, even if she doesn’t act like that.

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2 Set Up A Date.

Many couples, when they have discussions about their relationship, promise that they will make time for each other regularly. Then what happens? Life gets in their way and they don’t.

Furthermore, when husbands agree to spend more time together, it is often left to the wife to make plans, figure out the date, cover babysitting, and make reservations. All of these are things that she has to do every day around her family and work and that would be just another thing. You will resent it.

I can promise you that if you make an effort to plan a night out with your spouse if you decide when and where, you cover babysitting, and you choose an outing you know she will enjoy, it is something you can do now to make your spouse happy.

Just planning the date on my own, I can promise, will give your wife some joy. You can do that. You know you can. If you do it.

3 Take Some Weight Off Her Shoulders.

Many wives carry the weight of the world on their shoulders. Home care, child care, scheduling, their work, their parents, you. All of these things they have to deal with daily.

All of these things become very heavy. I would encourage you to try and lift some weight off your spouse’s shoulders, even if it’s only for a day.

I would also encourage you to not ask her what she needs but to look for an opportunity and just do it. You can tell her you will, but don’t ask her if you can do it.

Part of easing your wife’s shoulders is letting her not have to decide whether to let you help her and what you can help her with. That’s just one thing on her shoulders. Just do something you know she likes and do it.

So, take a look at what your wife needs and help her bear the burden. I can promise you that doing this is one of those things you can do right now to make your wife happy.

4 Give Her A Gift.

Imagine if your wife entered the room now and gave you a gift. It was a small thing, but it was meaningful to you. How would you feel satisfied?

So why not do the same with your wife? A small gift will be the only thing that brightens her day.

A very important part of gift-giving is what you give her as a gift. My ex-husband and I both agreed he could never give me something with a power cord after our boyfriend gave his girlfriend an alarm clock! He stuck with that and the gifts he gave me were very thoughtful. They made me feel loved and appreciated right now.

I encourage you to go out now and buy something you know your wife will want. If you have no idea what you want, ask her friends. They will know exactly what you want.

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5 Hug Her.

I didn’t put this at the beginning of my list of things you can do to make your wife happy. Although they may very much want to be cuddled, many women are feeling overwhelmed these days by their life and their volatile relationships with their husbands.

As a result, if their husband extends his hand for a hug in a way he hasn’t for a long time, they may back off, unsure and surprised.

But, if you do all or at least a few of the things I recommend above, your wife will be more receptive to a hug than she was before.

Hugs are said to be the key to maintaining a healthy relationship. Experts say that a 10-second hug every day profoundly connects people.

And cuddles are relatively safe. Sex can be fraught with all kinds of problems, but hugs are sweet, understated, and cute.

So, here are 5 things you can do right now to make your wife happy and bring some romance into your relationship.

I know romance may not be a priority for you but it sure is for a woman. In particular, if the wife has a lot of responsibilities.

So, dig deep. That romantic you are there somewhere. After all, I fell in love with you once.

You can do that! You will be glad you did.